The SECRET to Manifesting a Specific Person: A Proven Method & Story

hi my name is Joseph Alai welcome to my channel and today I want to talk about some of the pitfalls of manifesting a specific person with the solutions tucked in are you someone who is absolutely tired of wondering and waiting if you are manifesting the right way are are you getting certain experiences certain manifestations like text messages but are sick of waiting for your ultimate end being with that person are you afraid that you've done something wrong are you worried that you are not Imagining the right things are you hearing stories of people manifesting instantaneously and thinking and worrying and hoping to God that you are not doing something wrong and wondering if you are doing something wrong I want to talk to you specifically about a story of one of my coaching clients which is a common thread that I've seen time and time again with individuals and how she overcame some of her issues and thereby manifested her specific person this is someone who has gone through the ringer with coaches someone who has gone through the ringer with um trying different techniques listening to different ideologies experimentation and ultimately found her way into coaching sessions with me and before so before she did a fifth session with me she sent me an email to let me know that she had big news and by the time we opened up our fifth session she told me that she had manifested her specific person her specific person had came came back and they were back together and so that is the process I want to explain to you during this video which is really telling it's exciting it's very inspiring and it should hopefully give you some inspiration and ideas of what's going on in your life if this is your journey so before we begin please hit the like button it'll really help me out if there something to the algorithm so that those who wouldn't normally be able to see this will hit the Subscribe button if you like this stuff if you like broken down observations and systematic uh tested techniques on how to manifest whatever you want through analysis examination of manifestations spanning over a decade tens of thousands of manifestations observed hit the Bell icon if you like this and want to stay notified every Tuesday and Friday I release new content I have multiple platforms that you can now follow me on that I've started to release content on I have a um a coaching program I've got workshops and there is stuff coming that I'll mention at the end of this video so but let's begin talking about this client of mine so when I saw this client for the very first time she was very much like every other client um everyone has their own background they have their own understanding she was someone who had gotten into manifesting over the last couple of years but and it was over a specific person she along the way kind of gave up for a while started living life a different way but ultimately could not forget what she had experienced with manifesting she had switched to and from different teachers she had learned a lot of different things had put a lot of things into practice but never could make a decision essentially for which stuff would work which didn't work and so coming to me she had an objective which was to manifest a specific person and she wanted to make sure that she was doing it right she had already been imagining certain things she had been following certain instructions she had um experienced certain results but she did not want to wait years to manifest a specific person she kept being told or she was making the assumption that because she didn't manifest within 24 hours that she was must have been doing something wrong and then not only that she had started to a while back she said that she had been manifesting things like text messages but her manifestations stalled as she said that it was not going to where she wanted it to go she had made contact with this person a while back again but again it did not lead up to the point where she wanted it which was to be in a committed relationship with this person so ultimately when we began speaking there was a lot to cover but this is a common story that I've heard time and time again she is the standard client that I speak with someone who watches a lot of different content someone who puts a lot of stuff into practice someone who really cares about manifesting someone who has put their heart into it she knows she really believes that she's capable of doing it but does not know 100% where to go she also had coached with multiple people in the past and she said as she said for a while she was getting some results such as getting text messages she was getting um you know certain types of traction from this individual but she said that it had stalled out so to speak so she was coming to me to wonder like I said if she was doing something wrong why had her manifestations stalled should she keep keep imagining she was in this constant state of imagining and affirming and ultimately she just wanted her specific person she had come to the point however where because she had been doing this for a couple of years and going back and forth she came to me way long before meaning she was a a viewer of my content long before but had left for a while to watch some other individuals but had never forgot this is what she told me she had never forgot the experiences and she said that over the time the stuff that she had imagined whilst um you know W watching me and then afterward eventually everything that I had said originally uh uh um could be said to be true about her whole experience ultim ultimately what she was saying is overall no matter where she went in the end over time when she was able to witness her manifestations over time her experiences over time the the commonalities that I talk about remained true so that's why she came to me that's why she made the decision she I didn't want she said she said I didn't want to mess around anymore I wanted my specific person I don't want to push them away there's so much stuff out there talking about people doing the wrong thing manifesting their person for someone else or breaking a manifestation and then the fact that she had gotten some results and then not others she said she couldn't get out of my head out of this is what she said I couldn't get out of my head the thought that I wasn't Imagining the right thing and it always stuck in her mind the thought that she might not be imagining far enough she might be going to instant gratification and so we deed into beliefs assumptions what she was imagining how she was imagining and how she was living her life she had a constant experience in her life where men would treat um enter into her life acting a certain way but then she would always turn into a person who had to essentially put them on a pedestal so she wanted that to stop and then also she would get really insecure she was someone who was constantly checking Instagram stories she was checking Instagram stories to see if the person that um she was kind of jealous of was checking his stories or something I don't really know how it social media works but something to the effect of and then he wasn't checking her stories and something like this oh people were following her I'm sorry people were following him who she was jealous of she was nervous anxious couldn't stop thinking about it couldn't stop um imagining couldn't stop thinking negative thoughts she thought that she was constantly supposed to enter into the state of the wish fulfilled and she wasn't so she was beating herself up she was afraid every last thought that she was having was going to manifest she was told that every thought that she was having was going to manifest and so what happened was I took her through a process right through session by session of our coaching I broke down strategically all that she was telling me right so one of the things that I do and I talk about this on my channel a lot so essentially for her it was just a more um custom tailored approach to breaking down her reality specifically from my um observation of experience and essentially what I had found was she had consist beliefs and assumptions which caused relationships to appear in her life but then vanish also she had assumptions such as um anytime I get someone I want they end up leaving she had assumptions that like I said something to the effect of anytime a man would come into her life that she really liked he would get put on a pedestal and then get insecure and jealous and then push him away and so we worked on these for a couple of sessions so essentially what that would look like is she had to create a few new assumptions which is very easy by definition and this is um something that assumptions and themselves can have such power a single statement there's a ledger within the subconscious metaphorical Ledger we can know this by identifying over time observing our manifestations and realizing that the single statements and judgments that we make about the experiences in our reality actually get stored Bo marked and then manifest consistently and continuously in our life you will know this by your relationships your experiences right this is something that um Neville God refers to as our state this is our state of being our state of consciousness we have a natural state now we are moving in and out of States day in and day out but we always revert back to our Natural State our true State that's our true self it's always creating and being pushed out continuously in this world this is why you will notice you notice it with your friends with your family with yourself that patterns begin to emerge in certain situations like for her she would be cool as a fan all the time but as soon as she would enter into a relationship she would shift she would change she would turn jealous insecure fearful doubtful all of these things but and so then she would essentially push this person away and they would vanished and should be seeking and all of this stuff A lot of times people I've seen this also is they'll have something where they're very attractive very appealing very awesome they um draw a lot of attention to themselves they even don't like people at first when they come when they come in and they're hit on or something to this effect and then ultimately eventually that person um either they get bored because the the girl is not paying any attention to them and they walk away but then suddenly she would snap and then gets jealous and obsessed and fearful and now wants to manifest them and and all this stuff there's a lot of ways that this can go about um our subconscious can go about creating and crafting our reality there are a lot of triggers that can be identified that often are secret to us that sometimes it's one thing I've had many sessions with people where one single thing that they unaware of that is so obvious to me they'll say they'll give me a few sentences or for a few minutes they'll tell me their story and right away boom you have this assumption this is causing you to not manifest your person and then within a day boom they're able to do it so point being is I gave her initially the task that I give everyone I gave instructions I gave some observations myself I gave some beliefs that I myself based on the self-concept and the fact that everyone has you pushed out I taught her how to observe the reality properly reverse engineer it to exact exactingly dissect reality to Target the belief on The Ledger of the mind to find those assumptions that are causing Mayhem or causing our reality to go or causing that person to come in and then vanish or causing that person to come in and change us into crazy or causing us to obsessively look and search and go on Instagram and all this stuff and check social media continuously and so I gave her some tasks like that and then she came back and she reported that she had some change in her life she what happens is interestingly enough creating new items to put on The Ledger of the subconscious can be instant can be so fast to manifest if you get the right thing if you're directed in the right way you know I talk about this a lot in my channel how to dissect reality reverse reality in a meticulous way so you can like I talk about all this stuff remember you your self which is your Consciousness is pushed out on the screen of space which means everything you need to know is presented before you right and so by by meticulously observing if you are observant if you can think strategically or to um you know abstract reality to a degree where you can pull out commonalities from it then you can easily figure out what belief it is within you that is causing the problems that you're experiencing and most of the time when I you know meet with a coaching client once or twice it is usually the first time that I easily am able to discover what it is and um in this case with this individual she had been able to use the process the tailored process that I gave her um extract a bunch of information from reality construct a bunch of of beliefs with that impressed those into the subconscious and her reality began to shift what was interesting about this and this is a common thing as well it was the second time that we were speaking and she was a completely different person right it was weeks later right you generally when I talk to my people my coaching clients I um I call them my people right we get close so I um generally recommend take what I give you right put it to the test it's a conversation that's structured and custom-tailored approach so I often say listen you need to wrap your mind around this stuff so put this stuff into practice and come up with a new series of ideas questions concerns for the next time that we speak and this is what happened and when she was speaking to me next time I mean my mind was blown because she was different she was really different and she had started to see things shift in her world people were treating her differently she was looking at the world differently people were more attracted to her as well she was noticing it she was giving me um she was giving me evidence to suggest that this was true which meant a that her that yes she had changed her reality but B also that her mindset was changed and she was actively through this process changing her beliefs as well so it's the assumptions that cause the World to Change and then those assumptions if you do it the right way they will change your beliefs as well so it's a cycle continuous cycle and really like I said like coaching for me is more like L Custom Tailoring the systematic approach in that way but the the formula is generally the same observing extracting impressing so but once we spoke I the second time I noticed that there was a something else that was uh before me present before me which is uh essentially was another belief and assumption that had to do with her self-concept related to her self-esteem related to a fear of Abandonment that was not present in our conversation prior and even in her experience she was fully unaware before she had to strip away certain assumptions and beliefs in her reality prior in order for this to appear and this is a common thing that I see with myself with manifesting when I went to therapy for years and I began to apply manifesting to what my therapists would tell me I should do right so instead of just listening I actually took what he said and I manifested it in my life I had rapid results but essentially those results led to new openings of new ideas New Concepts new things that I realized realizations that changed everything and in this case it was another assumption that was instilled from childhood related to experiences that she had actually related to judgments of experiences that she had that we were able to determine together her and I and it turned out that she was causing so yes she was a for um people were changing and she was putting people on a pedestal that's what was happening when she was drawing them in she was changing into that she was changing they were changing but ultimately it became obvious that she was actually she had a deep-seated fear of Abandonment altogether and that was causing her that was the source that was causing her to change and causing them to change and causing them to leave so it wasn't about the idea that they change right they people change so they have to stop changing yes that's one way but really the key was is that she was afraid of Abandonment so we went through again a custom teller process for her to instill a new series and set of beliefs to overwrite the old ones which again is very simple it's just the act of imagining it into you right defining the new belief you want that's going to overwrite the old and press that in your mind and then let it go and then that will happen and then that ch changed everything so after that I said at the same time so we discovered that and then I told her she began to tell me a little bit more about the experiences that she had related to um her receiving text messages and communication from this person prior so she said that as a result of some material that she had been consuming and some stuff she was reading on um some forums or something like this comments is that she was being basically told that she should be imagining things like communication she should be imagining short-term events that could stack on top of each other and eventually would lead to the end so I explained to her well really I didn't explain anything I told her to look back in her experiences because she had been doing this for a couple of years now and I asked her to observe her manifestations and think of all of the time she had imagined for something and imagined multiple things for the same desire and what happened and essentially you know through that and a little bit of directing and custom directing we were able to determine that really the end is where you begin when you begin to manifest text messages and calls and things of this nature it causes and this was really evident in her because she was super anxious checking all the time she was afraid constantly that the person was going to completely leave forever and pick up some other chick so so um she was manifesting short-term things which is causing instant gratification which is the opposite of what we should be doing which is experiencing the sum total of all that we wish to have in the end and with this that was the key for her so by after that essentially what that looked like and why this is and I made a whole series of videos on this recently as well is that your Consciousness itself takes a snapshot this is an observation that I've made from over a decade of observing these thousands of manifestations is that your Consciousness itself snapshot the imagination what you hand it right what You observe rather let me frame it more specifically whatever you imagine your awareness of being takes a snapshot of and then it compels and forces and pushes and merges and orchestrates everything everybody every thought every everything in this world it forces and compels them to take part in your in the Fulfillment of that replica in reality down to the perception down to the point of view down to the feeling down to the thought down to the experience in totality so in other words your Consciousness is the is the film it's the film and it burns on it what you hold in front of it which is essentially what you imagine so you imagine something awareness itself you can look at it this way this might be a better way you bring something within the mind which is your imagination the refraction the the the light of God right it says God is light in him is no Darkness at all so the light of God which is your Consciousness refracts through that image that you're holding in your mind if you can hold it there long enough and still enough it refracts through and burns the image on the screen of space it burns the image on the screen of space and the screen of space is reality and so when it burns the image on the screen of space that is manifestation so manifestations are essentially seeds now a bridge of incidents which is another unit of creation as it relates to a manifestation are the events or experiences that must transpire to cause reality a to turn into desired reality we are in reality a every moment this is reality a or let's call it reality now we are in reality now because everything is now right our desired reality is manifestation X it is manifesting a specific person as was this chicks so the idea or concept is that you can observe by looking at your manifestations is whatever you hold within your imagination God your awareness your consciousness of being right that's not your mind it's it's Consciousness that's separate separate from the mind it refracts so it's essentially as if you're holding something in front of a light boom and the shadow casts right shadow cast so that is what's happening here so whereas as opposed to something being blocking light and casting a shadow awareness which is the light of God cast through the imagination and then refracts it like through a prism when you shine light through a prism and it shines in multiple directions well the directions are your mind right and your senses that's time and space so your manifestation refracts through time and space in this carnal world and thereby manifesting your desire so what that looks like and what that means is the DNA of that seed that is planted containing that burnt image consists of those events that must transpire in for you to get it for instance what could a bridge of incidents look like and this we'll give a simple example such as manifesting a winning um I don't know $100 in a lottery ticket would be imagining having that so maybe being at the register at the 7-Eleven or the corner store and receiving the $100 and looking and witnessing that you just had a lottery ticket that's in front of you and then the the clerk could be telling you you won $100 and you having it in your hand so that would be after the end that would be after the end so in that case the seed would consist of your so not just the events themselves like buying the ticket and winning and going to the store it would be the thoughts too all your thoughts I think I'm going to go to the store right now um and then someone texting you would be another experience which could be the person saying hey have you played the lottery lately and you getting a bright idea and thinking I should play the lottery boom buy the lottery ticket right which which one to buy boom you have another thought all these thoughts even that person who texted you that's included in the bridge they received a thought to text you all that's in the bridge so the seed itself consists of all those experiences that consist of awareness being intelligent and causing everything to move and then that unfolds one one event after the next until the you reach the end so when a so this is what happened effectively when she was manifesting the um communication with the specific person was the text message and stuff like that was she was reading comments from people listening to to these um people talk about how that's the key and then boom it just goes from there but really what's happening is as she was able to observe in her experiences was each of those imaginal acts are singular standalone manifestations so the text message was a was fulfilled and then vanished right that's not leading till the next part each of those are independent so when she had this fear of Abandonment that was causing all of these people to leave in the first place taken care of The Next Step was her to imagine the end and the final end was being in a committed relationship with this person that we knew there would be no question when a text message arrives when a kiss arrives when an I love you arrives since she's only Imagining the being with that person in a committed relationship that's what is going to happen and I stuck my reputation on that I've seen it before I've coached many clients many a client to manifest their specific people going to the end I've been doing it for over a decade I have first tried and I'll go into a story myself where I had a ton of pain myself I mean the reason I talk so passionately about this and this person particularly is because it reminds me so much of the catastrophic experiences that I've had imagining things like text messages I love you I want to be with you come and visit me all of that stuff that caused Insanity because I wasn't well aware I didn't know the complex the simple yet complex behind the scenes of manifesting as it was truly as it can be understood over time right it's one thing so this individual when she when you jump into manifestation you only know unless you've had some miraculous experiences before to compare to you only know what you're being told so you have someone like myself saying yes there's this bridge of incidents there's these seeds you know events stack on top of each other go only to the end you know time is not a factor things are going to unfold in the fastest way but you know things must unfold in a natural way as well and then you're going to have another person who is saying no there is no time you can instantaneously sh change realities you don't have to worry about any of that manifest the middle that's all a belief who you going to believe you're not it's not necessarily who you're going to believe who are you going to run with you're going to run generally speaking and this is I mean how many coaching clients have I had now that I've helped that have um gone the other way even myself in the beginning I went the other way for years that's how I came to be who I am now most of the cases what happens is people come to me it's not that getrich quick style stuff they want to go to the easier softer way which is this instant stuff there was no time stuff this whatever jumping realities all this stuff and more you know I to be honest I did that that's why I am who I am today so there's nothing wrong with that but then they come back right my way when I say my way I mean the way that I've observed and the way that others have observed is the easier softer way and so this is what she did and that's when she came back to me so what happened is she imagined the the um relationship with her specific person which was essentially her out to dinner with him discussing their gratitude of being in a committed relationship both of them together in a very loving situation it was a brief short uh I don't remember exactly what it was I'd have to go back to the recording but it's a short concise scene right we developed it together and it was used she used verbage to be specific and ultimately that was um verbiage and then being together with this person was what she chose to CH to select as her imaginal act and in doing so um the next session she told me it was mind-blowing she said that this person had contacted her and I wanted to ensure that she had not imagined anything else in the middle she hadn't done you know all this stuff and she said yes she said she's only been Imagining the end something really shifted when we went through this understanding that was really when we custom tailored these systematic techniques towards her life and her personalized experience such as delving into issues related to her common experiences what she witnessed when she was young her past relationships and then I can always give my you know usually the best is always through experience right so in giving my experience I had a lot of common things I've had a crazy life a lot of my stuff I've had crazy unbelievable experiences right if you're going to tell me a story and think I'm going to judge you you're you're you're out of your mind I'm judging you for thinking I'm going to judge you right um I've heard everything I've seen everything I've done everything you know I've been through everything and so I'm able to help guide in a way that I have been able to utilize right manifestation techniques to get there but so she man imagin the end and the next time I spoke with her she had um she had a load of a load of stuff to tell me that was the third session she had a load of stuff to tell me about how she had gotten into contact and he messaged her and things are going smooth but she was worried about her thoughts she was having some thoughts of anxiousness some thoughts of fear she didn't want it to break again she didn't wanted to you know uh go arai like it had gone in the past but nothing had fully been set in stone but there was um a strong bond of communication there was continuous conversation between them so she booked it immediately that next session she had got a package of five that's what happened so that was a third and then we talked I helped her with her thoughts you know and also you got to realize not every thought you have is going to create and even myself when I was going through the process of changing my fears and insecurities my abandonment issues my insec I said insecurities my um just a lot of things related to relationships that had caused me tons of grief in the past obsessive thoughts addictive thoughts things of that nature you know we're going to go through a point no matter what where we're like is it going to happen again that's normal that's not going to break your manifestation so that that um session is based upon generally was based upon what to think how to think in the interim between the first time you imagine and the end result how to handle these types of thoughts and what to do in the process so I helped shape her a um a process that she a tailor made process again that she could utilize witnessing her thoughts how to change thoughts permanently you know explain to her the problem with thinking that you're supposed to flip your thoughts how that's ineffective completely how I myself nearly went in seene doing that many times how many of my clients nearly went in seene doing that until they discovered by looking at the proof of how manifesting Works through observing reality about how thoughts themselves are not Inver um you know uh naturally the cause of things right thoughts themselves can be a result of your state so that means by the time they are appearing they're manifested and what happens when something manifested right it's not to be changed and altered that's not what you're changing you have to go to the root so I was able to help her be free from that obsessive way of thinking that she had to control and manage every thought that she had I so I helped her um uh essentially understand how when you have a thought you can observe that style of thought is it a repetitive thought is it a style of thought that's continuous is it a thought that's happening only in certain circumstances if so you can create assumptions and beliefs to enter into that ledger that we spoke about before that will cut it off at the source there's a Bible verse that says I am the vine you are the branches and that's not just talking about a person and a person I am the vine can mean that belief and you are the branches can mean the thought so if the thoughts are driving you mad there's a Vine that can be pruned prune the vine and if you do that it will stop those thoughts from thinking permanently and it's not only that you don't have to worry about that vine producing experiences anymore causing problems so you know she didn't have to freak out she knew essentially like those thoughts are side effects of a state and you can change a state by changing assumptions so change your self-concept or assumptions change those thoughts not switch to thought switch to thought that's a modern psychological approach that has nothing to do with manifesting that's something completely different I'm pure manifestation right I'm a purist when it comes to manifesting station so after that I gave her that the next time she spoke to me she was freaking out and she was yeah she had uh she had manifested her specific person they were together yada yada y yada and then our next sessions after that were first about how to um you know it was about how to maintain to make sure things don't get messed up and then we started talking about Finance but nevertheless right this is a common blueprint for how you know people are generally the same the experiences are the same I've had countless coaching clients countless who have manifested their specific people I've manifested specific people I've manifested General people there's so many ways that people's minds themselves can cause problems and so many nuances that you have to ex you have to observe your experiences in a proper way in order to derive Your solution right and experience is the best way to do that observing your manifestations so if you take anything from this by objectively observing your manifestations that means logging them keeping track of them right you will be able you'll be unstoppable you will never have to worry that you're being taught the wrong thing because you can look and say no that's not what's happened to me 20 times that's happened one time but that was a misconception right that's common by the way experiencing some this is what I used to do is experience something and say oh that thing must mean this but then and then usually I used to just run with it and that's it but eventually over time you know you realize oh wait that doesn't fit that second experience so my manifestation techniques the systematic way that I Implement them the Strategic and custom tailored plans that I provide for people are in my for my coaching clients Etc are all based upon objective experience not only from my own mind so I'm a um a computer scientist and then I also was a student of mathematics and physics that was what I those were my um my jam in University and I love math I love probability and I love differential equations and physics um essentially the probability was amazing because it helped me to uh really it's discret math discret mathematics too it helped me to masterfully craft formula and probability statements to prove that manifesting was real and also find the formulas with differential equations and then also still with probability to be able to have these common factors that I could thereby expect generally speaking of what to happen if I take this action and that's how I derive what I give you when I'm coaching someone it is through those 14 years of systematically keeping track track of analyzing performing experiments deriving data making generalizations testing these generalizations against other manifestations and other theories siing them down like filtering them down boiling them and taking out the impurities and ultimately coming up with statements that would fit against all 5,000 10,000 20,000 of manifestations that are related to that thing that is how I come to you with my man manifestations yes I have used resources like Neville Godard yes I use resources like like um non-duality yes I use resources like Christianity and the Bible but ultimately what's vital and important is we use our experiences not one experience experience is to explain a phenomenon to explain a concept to explain a generality we we must this is the scientific way of thinking we must be able to say this is true because this happened this amount of times right that is what I give to you and that is why I have such confidence in my ability to direct people that is why I have so many success stories so many people having manifested specific people I have coached New York Times bests sellers I have coached celebrities on uh television on Prime Time television I have coached Elite athletes I have coached multi-millionaires I've coached a lot of people to their success and really my key and my secret is to be able to um take their experiences and observe them and find the common denominators and there and then also compare them against the common denominators of others who have gone through the same path as them and then give them the solution and they always always always have great results to show for their implement ation of this stuff so anyway I really put a lot of time and effort into going back into my recordings of this individual and um bringing you this story so I hope this was helpful for you I hope this will um kind of give you insight into how you can observe your manifestations what and where maybe you've went wrong or are going wrong how you can change and fix that or generally speaking this manifestation that I talked to you about this whole breakdown through these four coaching client coaching yeah these sessions with this coaching client is just a great example of manifesting in general there are so many um generalities that you can derive from this and find these common denominators that you can apply to your daily life this can be effective anywhere not just with a specific person these are commonalities that exist everywhere in manifesting so utilize this to the best of your ability you know I take a lot of pro and I put a lot of energy into what I give you in the same way that essentially you know this video is made is the kind of custom tailored approach that I guide an individual client like this individual and this is not just one person this is a continuous thing that I've seen over and over who eventually goes from this um unknowingness to getting their manifestation changing their life entirely or something to that effect so please hit the like button hit the Subscribe button if you like these broke broken down examples if you like to learn how to systematically manifest in 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