Manifesting Your Perfect Partner: A Systematic Approach

hi my name is Joseph Alai welcome to my channel and today I want to continue from the last video I did on manifesting a general person or manifesting a perfect person this is in contrast to the commonly taught methods of manifesting a specific person the Neville goded way a video that I created multiple years ago that Drew great attention that helped many of people manifest their partner of their dreams but in this case recently I've manifested my perfect person she is also a um content creator many of you have figured out who she is and I have about four years ago I developed a method accidentally to construct or create a person and this took four years to unfold and ultimately it turned out to be the greatest manifestation one of the best Bridge of incidents I have ever seen in my entire manifestation career so this is as I said in contrast to manifesting a specific person although you draw upon similar topics or techniques in this case it is actually a lot easier it's simpler there is less resistance and It ultimately makes for a smoother ride through the bridge of incidents unfolding so that you can ultimately get the person that you want want so before we begin hit the like button it does something to the algorithm so that those who would not normally be able to see this video will be able to see it hit the Subscribe button if you want to get the feed on your homepage for laser focused systematic techniques on how to manifest anything that you want in a predictable Manner and also hit the Bell icon to stay notified to get notifications push notifications when I release content which I will be doing a lot of I have reactivated the Facebook group with success stor so if you're interested in that you can go ahead and click the link in the description also there is a worksheet with this to take you through step by step how to manifest your perfect person so let's get into it then I will be doing a collaboration video with my perfect person and we will go into the nuances the stories it'll probably be multiple Parts cuz there is so much to cover that unfolded in the last 4 years in order for me to Manifest this person but until then I want to run upon or run down the kind of techniques or aspects of manifesting a perfect person by means of characteristics that you can use systematically to manifest a person without resistance and that is the beauty if you are one of the people who has been attempting to manifest a specific person and you have been watching my videos and the videos of the now hundreds of other content creators then this is the video for you if you've been struggling if you've not been seeing results if you've been seeing results but they're not consistent follow this process and even if you don't have a person in mind this is also the video for you in many cases it becomes a simple process if you've watched my videos before for I really hone in and harp upon systematic testing of manifesting this is the way that you will build your confidence to know that you can manifest anything now most people have a lot of the fundamentals Twisted there's a lot of teachers teaching contradictory things but I can tell you that if you follow these steps if you put this to the ultimate test if you take what I teach here and implement it you will get the results so what is the difference between manifesting a specific person and manifesting a general person well as I touched upon in the prior video there's a lot that can go into manifesting a specific person ultimately the point is construct an imaginal scene that implies you have what you want that means go into your imagination think what would it be like if I already had this person you go after the end whether that means you want to go to a time and space where you are married to that person where you have a family with that person you take the goal that would constitute your ultimate dreams and you formulate that into an imaginal act an imaginal act is a scene in firstperson perspective thinking from the point of view of already having what you want so in this case as I said whether that means maybe I don't know celebrating a 5year anniversary or something after the point in time where you are already married that is the way and then you imagine that in first person perspective you repeat that over and over and over again until your mind is saturated until you feel like you have done a great job until it seems like it is a memory and you repeat that scene over and over and then your subconscious receives a the impression or the image of that which you hold within your mind and then in a way which you would never be able to predict in a way that you could not consciously conceive or preconceive a bridge of incidence independent of yourself and your understanding meaning a way that you will not know and you will be included in this process as well you will be moved the world will be moved and that you will become that person meaning the image that you impress will be created you will become a person who is married to that person and the downsize as I mentioned in my prior video is often times if this process does not work instantly which in many cases it does you figure out what you want you imagine it and then it will unfold naturally the problem is if you have um assumptions characteristics beliefs perceptions ideas thoughts feelings which are in contrast to you easily manifesting a person like if you have uh beliefs that would be harmful in the realm of relationships thinking that you're not good enough um experience where you've been cheated on many times people change their mind they're not loyal you're not chosen first these are very common in the realm of characteristics of manifesting people or in relation relationships in general and often times when it comes to manifesting a specific person we have to be able to suspend our Judgment of reality in order to hold and fix in our mind the image of a person that we wish to experience meaning say you want a person who is cold say you want a person who has changed their mind say you want a person who you have a a past with a past that reminds you constantly that you do not have this person person well the fact that you're impressing your subconscious mind with the end result that you want to experience such as being married to this person you will now have multiple contradictory aspects that exist within the subconscious mind your subconscious beliefs are being executed continuously they're happening independent of your conscious mind meaning aside from your conscious thoughts when you're sleeping when you're fixated or focused on other things your subconscious mind meaning that which controls your body your breathing your heart your essentially non-conscious movements Your non-conscious Existence which is about what 95% of our experience those things that exist within the subconscious are regulating controlling and creating your reality every moment of every day so when you go ahead and imagine receiving this end you visualize yourself having a person you what happens is is you now have these subconscious beliefs assumptions perceptions executing 24/7 and you're attempting with One Singular imaginal act to control modify edit and create this reality there's contradictions there that often times if you're not receiving results you're going to have to go in and change and modify these things this is the downside because it can often be difficult to control the Mind especially when it comes to matters of the heart everyone knows this everyone hates the feeling of Heartache hates the feeling of longing that feeling of love is so powerful there is nothing else like it in the world so with that said there has to be another way to create a reality in an easier and simpler way than that and that is when we talk about creating a perfect person or a general person now I did this after I had a breakup years ago four years ago whatever something to that effect I got out of a relationship and I sat down with a pen and paper I had a very firm decision made in my mind that I would never go through that type of experience again and when I made up my mind having a mind with that is very obsessive very meticulous very thoughtful very systematic very methodical I knew that I would be able to if I PID attention if I took my time and if I was careful and cautious I could construct and create a reality by which someone would be able to enter into my reality and give me every single thing that I wish to experience so in contrary or in contrast to that most people what happens is they find a person that they want after they find that person they get with that person after they get with that person something happens then they stumble upon manifesting and they say I want this person back in my life so this person that they fell in love with does not constitute a perfect person they probably have 50 to 75% of the ideal traits perhaps they're pretty good-look perhaps they are loyal to a degree they make you feel good about yourself there are many things or reasons why you would want this person to be your romantic partner your husband your wife or whatever the problem is is that you now have to transform the person that they already are meaning I don't know they've just broken up with you or they're not giving you the affection that you want you need to control your mind insert an image into the mind and force a person to or compel them to conform to the image that you hold in your mind now often times it is as simple as Imagining the end as I just went through that process but when you begin to have problems meaning the person transforms and they transform back or they don't become the person you want them to become fast enough you have to go in and use different um you have to change your assumptions beliefs work on your past do revision reflect back on your history and find out your core issues find the patterns in your life and then alter them so that this person can stop being the person they were and conform to this new image the better way to do this is in advance meaning before you ever stumble upon a person if you define the criteria that you feel would be a perfect person it would constitute an ideal person you can actually cre create them they can enter into your life and you will not have to do anything else they will already be that person that you want this is how I have started manifesting I don't know five years ago four years ago something like this I stopped directly visualizing singular things after exper experiencing something like like I said you come in contact with something then you realize you want it then you try to change reality to conform that thing to be yours the best way to do this is preemptively kind of construct your reality in advance so you think of what you want before you ever come across something map out what your ideal version of that thing would be jot it down from the point of view of already having it it and then what happens is it might take a day it might take a week it might take a month it might take a year in this case four years for that thing to enter into your reality but if you were meticulous enough if you were methodical enough if you were careful enough that Creation with specificity and direct attention and saturation of the mind with that image of your desire that thing that person that place will enter into your life in a perfect fashion in a way that you will have no resistance you will not have to control and modify and conform your mind or to make this person or thing or place conform to your ideal no it will independent of your Consciousness independent of your awareness in its own Bridge of incidents it will become that person and enter into your life in the exact nature as you outlined so the way that you do this and the best way to do this and I have a worksheet that you should download that's associ iated with this that I can walk you through step by step on this process is you want to figure out what you want in this case we're talking about people so what is an ideal person who is your ideal partner now I can tell you I made two separate lists and very interestingly enough both of them ended up merging into one over time and then within a foure span this person my person now came into my life the way to do this is reflect upon there's a couple ways to do this but the best way to do this is to reflect upon your desires reflect upon what you want what you think you want all the characteristics be as specific as you want the more I think about and reflect upon the list that I created the more it blows my person's mind to realize how specific I was I was insanely specific with uh physical traits aspects characteristics personality traits I'm talking about direct I'm talking about height weight um every single aspect of the physical characteristics and not only that we're talking about also what they do for fun what they do for a living I wrote all these things down I titled the list like you want to write down the ideal for you so if you want a person to be like in the end really what you want is your husband or your wife so write that down on top and then under that you would write down my wife is and the name the characteristic my wife is a name the characteristic my husband is um six foot tall my husband has dark hair my husband has green eyes my husband has this body type my husband is this characteristic my husband is funny whatever the case is over and over systematically very specifically meticulously write down all the characteristics and remember though this is only one aspect of it this is drawing upon your desires what you think you want what you've experienced in the past that you've wanted and what you think is beyond the scope of what you could ever think or dream as possible so one thing is the physical characteristics but then you have to think and this is where I initially went wrong which is why I made another list was I kind of neglected the traits that were most important for a relationship which would be things like communication loyalty um give and take growing together there's so many different ASP like perfect um oh my gosh can't think of all the words and phrases and lines that I wrote right now but what you could do is and what I would suggest doing it's something that I did was looking up traits of a perfect and ideal relationship look up even examples of relationships that are I don't know 50 years old and and look up what it was that keeps that relationship going you want to find those characteristics and write down my partner and I are loyal to each other my partner and I always keep each other first my partner and I always show each other affection my partner and I always grow together my partner and I always remain our interest in each other whatever the case is write down as many things as you possibly can so in my case what I did was it was the last few pages of my journal and there were over hundred I mean from my memory I have to get my journal it's in New Jersey right now I'm in the UK but in my from what I can recall it was over a 100 items initially and then the second list was longer than that if I'm not mistaken and I'll get that eventually and I'll get those items and I'll get most of them I'll display most of them to you but the point is is write it in the tense now when she did it she did this in her head my person did this in her mind I wrote this out on a piece of paper much more organized I like to systematically test so I like to have records of everything I do so on a R day I can reflect back and look and realize like wow I did this now interestingly enough I wrote this list I closed the book it was the last pages in my journal I put it away then I mean there was some stuff that happened in the middle right I wasn't just sitting waiting life happened I met someone in the middle someone actually ended up becoming a person in my life that transform helped me to transform in a person who was ready for this ideal relationship and vice versa in the opposite direction with my person she also was in relationship in the meantime and she was brought forth and trans like essentially her characteristics her perspective her beliefs all of these things were transformed by means of this relationship so that she and I both together would be perfectly compatible which was one of the list items that I wrote down in this list so ultimately when this person came into my life four years later which was recently a couple months ago she was I mean to a te every single thing we're talking about 100% of my desires that is who she is and it caught me off guard this was not my intention it came to me by means of a collaboration request but immediately I was drawn to this person reached out reached back out and we ended up hitting it off immediately um and it has been G Going swimmingly ever since no Quest uh questions no wiggle room for doubt none of that absolutely pristine so writing your list with the explicit instructions of exactly how you want your person is critical if you want a person the way you want them so think of the best relationships you've ever had think of things that go beyond what you could ever think possible think of the things that you've heard in relationships with other people that you've always wanted list down all of those things there's no limitation you can write down one thing 10 things a hundred things more than that which is what I did and it might take as I said a day a week a month a year four years or whatever it is but eventually the perfect Bridge of incidence will unfold and get you to the exact place where you will receive this person you will receive this thing now interestingly enough if you have a person in mind you could take the characteristics and the way that person makes you feel map that out on a list so you take a specific person you map it out into a general person and what happens is you add the characteristics that you desire and either that person will conform into this person that you've written down without any type of resistance or someone will come in who is better to kind of um I guess transpose superimpose upon that person and there will be no lack no nothing that will cause any type of fear doubts insecurities Etc now the thing is is during those four years it's not like I did nothing I manifested many things I worked on my relationship issues my attachment issues my security issues insecurity issues this is something that I'm doing always though working on my assumptions beliefs self-conception um creating a reality always I'm always working on my reality to better myself right my it's interesting my life has been very Dynamic I have had a lot of ups and downs in my life life a lot of crazy stories all which verify that manifestation can change a person miraculously right you can do anything you want if you know how to create it and the way to create is by systematically manifesting your reality in a way that is predictable and Laser focused and that's what I'm here to teach you so I hope this was helpful for you I hope this laid the groundwork now you have to stay tuned on my channel right I've gone on and begin building a strategy for my content in the future so there will be consistent releases be sure to like subscribe hit the Bell icon so you can stay tuned also I have many different social media platforms and channels now that are being utilized if you're not on my email list get on my email list Instagram I've got a Tik Tok now my Facebook group is back up so I the links will be in the description and also download that worksheet I'm offering one-on-one coaching yet again I do custom imaginal Acts there's a lot going on now that I'm really excited for you to experience thank you so much for your support I love that you're back on my channel I love that I'm back I 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