Manifesting With Joseph Alai (Neville Goddard Q&A)

people really enjoyed the last week they live stream and so did i it's been multiple i mean at least a year since i had done a live stream you just want to make sure can you all hear me loud and clear i moved into this location it's it was very interesting as this is the only apartment building itself in the entire town that i live in in san diego that does not have fiber optics so me as a computer person it was only after i moved here that i found that out you know before coming here i asked does this area have fiber optics they said yes but then coming here i found out no so i haven't done a live stream because youtube has a specific amount of requirements or at least a recommendations as far as what would make the stream smooth lag free i did not meet those requirements so it's been over a year besides last week since i've done a live stream i had such a good time last week and i know others have as well based on the feedback that i got i am excited that i get to do this again so that's why i'm here that's why i've done this again as i said i'm really grateful that you're here we were waiting for you that's really awesome germany where's everyone i would love to to see everyone type in the chat where they live istanbul israel one of the countries i would love to go to is israel and i will make my way there istanbul england connecticut hawaii was another awesome place i was in maui it was really awesome really small it was interesting how small it was or at least from my point of view pakistan awesome aruba i think that's a first that i've seen portugal i also want to go to portugal sweden germany bulgaria awesome netherlands awesome canada i was in montreal two years ago when i was on the radio a manifesting segment on 106.7 in montreal that was so cool holland greece bay area awesome i was there a couple years ago a couple times france never been would look to go north carolina i was there a couple months ago new york awesome new york atlanta awesome austria nice london pakistan i have a couple pakistanis here my curiosity is belief systems in pakistan i had a girlfriend who was pakistani her family was muslim i feel like it's a more conservative topic manifesting i could be wrong it's interesting argentina south florida i was in south florida recently as well kentucky only driven through tennessee i've been to tennessee before nova northern virginia that's where my girlfriend currently that's where she's from another aruba cyprus brad mississippi cambridge slash boston come to india i will be coming to india it's one of the top on my list israel's waiting for me south africa another place that's near the top of my list dc i was there recently amsterdam woodstock now he is small i'm on the big island awesome mad mystic of manhattan towards brian that's funny never even heard of it i'm not i don't really keep up to date with youtube or events unfortunately i should i don't as much so i don't even know what you're talking about cousin in san diego oklahoma algeria welcome india welcome brazil ask me questions everyone start with the questions go right ahead crawford georgia united kingdom he had limitation limiting beliefs pakistan related to marriage i can see that i'm struggling with the concept of allowing can you clear this allowing i think the concept the terminology is there could be different meanings to what you're describing allowing is kind of if it if i'm taking it in the way that you're i think you're intending allowing is yielding think of i'm trying to think of a good example but think of if you're pushing against something desire brings forth or brings forward this urge to force something into existence normally we have a desire we need to experience this thing we know how to manifest so we imagine this thing to the best of our ability and during this time we're imagining it's still kind of forcing eventually however we want to deliberately allow ourselves or allow let me use a different word we want to yield to the desire meaning more specifically yield after we imagine so as opposed to completely imagining and not stopping we want to imagine and then allow something to come without us forcing and manipulating reality to give it to us so in other words if i were to put it into a complete process it would be imagine what you want using all your might to force and control your imagination and then after you do that let go and it will come naturally the more you cling to the desire however or force yourself to remain in this imaginal scene with fear that if you stop you're not going to get it that level of control will prevent you from attaining your manifestation versus using that process to imagine and then afterward letting it go and yielding and relaxing that is what i perceive you're asking i think that's what you're asking as far as what does what is allowing does that make sense how could i manifest a job at a certain company i got rejected from four times and i don't want to apply more through affirmations and business without knowing what business i want to do let me re-read this how can i manifest a job at a certain company that i had previously been rejected for without applying again that's your first question how can i manifest a job at a certain company and business without knowing what business i want to do with affirmations i think what you're asking are two separate questions one is how do you get accepted to that company and the second one is how do you start a business i think that's what you're asking i at least can answer the first one and hopefully that second question i got it right would if i was in that situation i'll tell you what i would do from start to finish it might be different than what you did but in this you will also receive the answer to your question the moment i know i want something i'll imagine it as if i have it first and foremost that is the priority without imagining it i can attempt to manifest sorry let me rephrase that without imagining it i can attempt to apply numerous times but there will be it will be up to the fate of my previous manifestations or the contents of my subconscious my actions will depend on those things the results will depend on those things that were preset by myself long before or shortly before the point is is that unless i specifically manifest the solution to something before i decide to take the action i'll be left in a position where it's more random so i always want to imagine first and then take the action after no matter what it is there are multiple ways to do this and i would use multiple ways the first way would be to create general assumptions such as every job i applied to i get accepted or or i get a job offer i am always the top i can't think of the word i'm looking for i'm always the top um you know the person who applies the person in competition the top choice the top whatever i'm always number one when it comes to me being chosen in comparison or as it relates to other people there's a word i'm thinking of that i can't think of at this moment so i would create general statements like that as many as i feel would be helpful if true to the attainment of my desire i always get what i want i always imagine exactly what i need to to get what i want i always am considered first and foremost out of anybody else out of any candidate that's the word i was looking for so that would be what i would do first and foremost is i would write those down and the ones that i found i would jot down kind of in a brainstorming mode those different assumptions that if true would mean that there's no question i would be the one chosen so i would do that and then after that i would imagine the ones that i feel would stand out best so if i wrote down 20 different statements that i feel would be conducive to me receiving this manifestation i likely will not imagine all 20 but i will find a couple of them one or more that i feel stand out the most the other ones that i don't imagine the act of writing itself is an act of creation but a more deliberate and specific way is to imagine be it a conversation or a script or a command internally like an affirmation i don't like the term affirmation though it gives a lot of there's there are many different descriptions to that phrase so once i've done that then i'll go and i'll imagine the outcome i've gotten this job i've received the letter of acceptance i've received the job offer with the salary that i want so that's the imaginal act i would perform after imagining those separate assumptions or beliefs really they become the laws by which your universe works that process of writing down assumptions or descriptions of what you wish to be true is the process of creating new laws for your reality literally those will be engraved on your subconscious and your reality is your subconscious pushed out so you will then experience that after that as i said i'll imagine receiving the letter i'll receive the call i'll receive the congratulations i'll be out to dinner celebrating and then i'll apply most of the time it'll go smoothly if i for some reason got rejected before i ever performed these actions meaning i didn't imagine properly first i didn't set up these assumptions these beliefs it makes no difference all we have to do is literally what we'd have to do is i mean what i would do is revise the outcome receiving a letter whichever way you got denied for the position i would find an alternative way which would be the opposite so however way you got the news whether it was a letter an email a phone call whatever a friend telling you who works there already you could imagine the alternative ending to that which is what i would which is what i would do and in fact what i would do is and i've done this before is i've created fake letters with the letterhead of the position i'm looking for that company and it's saying dear Joseph Alai we would like to extend to you an offer for employment and what have you you wouldn't need to i wouldn't even need to apply after that you wouldn't need to apply after that that action of doing that so you make this fake letter to yourself as being receiving a job offer i would then read it as if i was reading it really so i'm trying to be present in the moment all manifesting is is taking an imaginal scene and being present in it now as if it's really happening now so you read that letter thinking from the point of view of the present moment as if you're really opening this letter that you don't know what it's going to say and then reading it and saying dear Joseph Alai we would like to extend to you an offer yes that would be all you would need to do however i would always always always always no matter what you're imagining specifically whether it's a you know visualization a script a statement always also create beliefs beliefs meaning assumptions or the self-concept which in plain english are statements that you simply wish are true as if they're true i always get what i want i always get the jobs i want i have the best job in the world i love what i do i'm the luckiest person alive i have the most skill out of anyone that i know statements they don't necessarily need to be true or false and they don't need to be beliefs or not beliefs has nothing to do with that concept it really has to do with generating new attributes that if you imposed those on your reality you would always get what you wanted and on that note if i did say like but you would want to combine it in that in that way so you create these beliefs that mean you always get what you want etc general beliefs and you could imagine those conver in a conversation ways usually visualizing is not the best option for creating a belief but a conversation would be you describing to a friend the outcome and then imagining the alternative meaning the revised letter or the revised phone call or even you forget about the fact that there's something happened in the past already meaning revision can sometimes give your mind the insinuation that there had something has happened that you didn't want to happen and you're fixing it what i would also do is simply receive a phone call as if you never received anything in the first place which this really is revision but this is the mindset of revision you receive the phone call as if you never had ever received a negative response in the first place so you're opening the email for the first time ever you are receiving that call for the first time ever you're telling your friends the news that you got the offer so if you do any number of things those things together you will never need to apply again as long as you're specific about the company you're specific enough so that there's no question about what you're talking about you will revise that scenario you will change that situation and get what you want i hope that's clear i hope i didn't lose some of these for those of you who have donated in order to have a question asked do me a favor and remember or copy like ctrl c or command c what you've written because sometimes they disappear on the screen and there's no way for me to see them so in this case we're good for now but just to be clear last time i think people thought i skipped over them really what happens is the messages disappear over time how would you go about bottled body changes not physique so physique is kind of the form size and development of a person's body so if it's not physique unless you mean physique as in like buff or you know getting strength or losing weight you're you may be talking about physical changes permanent changes like the way you look your eyes your nose your ears like your physical attributes besides things like weight or things that you can control outside of it anyway there's a very awesome book called psycho cybernetics by this guy named maxwell maltz i think modern society will enjoy that book it definitely was award winning at the time but most of the time now and no one knows about it it's awesome because it comes from the point of view of a plastic surgeon who learned about manifesting now he never says the word manifesting i think he does it on purpose so as to attempt not to trigger people into thinking that he's making deliberate references or common references to manifesting he writes the book as if he figured something out randomly that when you think a certain way this certain types of things happen right i recommend the book for everybody it has a lot of awesome step-by-step techniques seriously amazing book anyway the individual was a plastic surgeon and he discovered that the people who he would operate on after he would operate they would still be they would still feel as if they were deformed they would still feel as if their nose was too big they would still feel as if their ears were too big they would meaning this the mindset always remains the same if the mindset remains the same someone who was always picked on because they were ugly when they get to plastic surgery a lot of times they still act angry and resentful and act like they've always felt before ugly they think that when they get this external change it's going to change them as a person but it doesn't so he discovered this which is i think we can all identify that this could be true you have the the extremely overweight people who are picked on they lose a lot of weight and then they become a police officer and then they you know they're angry and dominate these these everyone that they can anyone that picked on them anyone that reminds them of someone who used to pick on them they get vengeance and payback right you have either seen this or heard of this before or something to this extent but he realized that if you change the internal the way that you see yourself literally not i'm not talking about emotionally like oh i forgive people or oh i feel happy no literally imagining that their nose was smaller to begin with imagining that their hands were bigger to begin with imagining that their ears were normal to begin with and what they found was what he found and what they found was that not only would it change their attitude it would eliminate the need for plastic surgery and a lot of the cases the person's trait or attribute would actually change meaning if you perceive yourself as a certain way you will force those attributes to remain but if you imagine yourself differently and you practice imagining yourself differently seeing yourself differently people complementing differently it will not only change the way you feel but it literally will change the external trait so all you need to do like any other manifestation is imagine you already are the way that you are don't imagine or the way that you want to be don't imagine that you took some action to look differently meaning that you were one way once and now you're a different way imagine yourself as if you never were the way you didn't want to be you always were the way you wanted to be you always were this height you never had this injury how would you act what would you think what would you say how would you feel by delving into the psychology meaning you're researching what would it be like if i never had this issue you are performing the fundamentals of manifesting and the fundamentals are all that's required with this so just imagine the end as if it's true imagine the end in first person all right how to stop thinking about the things that have to happen in order for me to get my manifestation i go to the end but then my thoughts pop up it isn't necessarily going to be that you'll never think about the middle it's we specifically want to attempt to not deliberately contemplate the middle right we don't want to plan out the middle we don't want to obsess on the middle myself however will my mind goes to maybe this is leading me here maybe this is doing this it becomes important to remain detached if you're remaining detached and kind of have an observing look like an observation rather than a identification so it's like a relaxed gaze on this might be happening that might be happening versus oh my gosh this is happening that's gonna happen this is gonna lead me here do not fear if you are simply in contemplation sometimes about this happening and that happening we are human beings we do not need to continuously pretend we have it we will never instantly imagine something and instantly our whole mindset changes so i'll give you a concrete example to the best of my ability for the individual who's attempting to create a new belief say it's they will go something very clear-cut say they are petrified of heights and they watch my video or someone else's video and they think wow i can manifest me not being afraid so this person takes a statement the opposite of the fear what would be the opposite of being afraid of heights i'm gonna just this is what i literally do just to be really clear i will go to power thesaurus and i will type in actually i'll type this first what is what is it called to be afraid of heights it's going to be a some type of okay acrophobia right so i'll take that i'll go into power thesaurus type that in and then i'm going to go to antonyms head for heights i don't like that we want to define a word that describes someone who's confident everywhere who has no fears who's fearless who's courageous in every situation who's level headed regardless of where they are there are many ways that i could create statements that would imply a person's not afraid of heights we don't want to use the negative meaning i don't want to say this person's not afraid of heights because the afraid of heights part is accentuated that becomes a soul focused if you think of someone not afraid of heights you think of them literally afraid of heights for a second and then switch it to not afraid of heights so something opposing such as level-headed or confident despite where they are right but once you figure that out and you imagine that so we'll say someone has a 10 out of 10 terror of heights meaning it's just extreme and then they watch my channel or they watch someone's channel and think okay i could change this and then they imagine that they're not afraid of heights in whatever way but then they're like why am i still afraid of heights and they go up to the empire state building in new york city and they're terrified and they're saying why isn't this working how do i i should just pretend constantly that i'm not afraid of heights the the the actual reality of the situation is that if it was that easy then you wouldn't need manifesting that's not manifesting modern psychologists therapists some of them suggest auto suggestion or self-talk or affirmations to repeat it over and over in your mind is to re not read to imprint a blueprint on your mind new grooves so that you'll begin to think that way but again that's not manifesting you should never expect to imagine and then suddenly just have your mind retrained to never expect to look for an outcome to be fully identified with this new character because again that's not manifesting so what is the likeliest to happen the person will imagine that thing and then they'll open their eyes and they are still going to be equally petrified of heights their mind will be filled still anytime they go to a second story building even two floors they can't look out the window their mind thinks that the floor is going to collapse or they're going to jump over or whatever it goes through the mind of a person who's petrified of heights right so i hope you're catching so far the analog as to what i'm talking about here eventually what will happen certain events will unfold that will compel the person force that person to not be afraid of heights meaning they will something will happen that will force them to run up to the second floor and do something quickly maybe there's like i don't know some type of fire alarm and they think that their pet's in danger so they run upstairs why would they have their pet upstairs if they're afraid of heights i think you get my point someone's upstairs they hear a cat meowing and they're like oh my god i have to get this cat they grab the cat go downstairs and then they think wow i just went up to the second floor to rescue and i didn't even think about it so my point is do not get down on yourself for not immediately conforming with this new image even of a manifesto your mind is going to think like a human being but it's the 10 minutes when you close your eyes and imagine that you have what you want that's when all the action is done when you open your eyes and you're living in daily life you simply just act how you would normally act not from the point of view of a manifesto but from the point of view of yourself here and now that will have no sway or impact upon your end result for the most part unless it's obsession and negative thinking or if you're deliberately imagining things to happen in the middle does that make sense i'd like to know for those of you who are following along if that makes sense if it does say that makes sense i'm gonna get to billy cat or blee blilly cat oh bee lily cat i like that oh man i hope i'm not missing some of these all right let's keep it rolling keep it rolling keep it rolling joe what's your explanation on why so many people in law of assumption are unsuccessful in manifesting their specific persons and or keeping them and why it seems like it takes years for some with no success okay i'm gonna give you the blunt truth of the matter most people are taught the law of assumption incorrectly that is the number one reason why people are not getting their manifestations i would stop there but there's more reason as to why like i could go into the specific as to what's incorrectly taught so i'm going to give you an example actually so i'm going to assume almost every almost every person here follows multiple manifestation teachers with that assumption i'll ask how many of you have heard the phrase and live by the phrase live in the end if you do jot it in the chat i'd appreciate that live in the end first and foremost is one of the greatest misconceptions of neville goddard's teachings that cause most people to not get their manifestations the false idea that we must remain there in the state continuously until it happens is the core reason why people don't get their manifestations i'm going to give you the shortest explanation possible early in neville's career even he said that but later in his career he said the opposite when i started testing manifestation long before i found neville one thing i did learn that was the contrary to law of attraction is that we do not need to obsessively remain in a state we don't need to continuously stay in it and in fact it's the opposite will unfold the person will not get the manifestation i found this out because of the dozens of things i attempted to do this with and then i did it because i always tested it and then i did it without constantly imagining and i found out that almost every time i obsessively imagined it i never got it and every time i imagined it and then forgot about it i did get it so that's one of the key problems why people aren't getting their their manifestations but i'll give you a couple more examples or ideas as well another reason why people are not getting it is because they are not working on their beliefs meaning they imagine the end result but they are not fixing the cause as to why the relationship went bad or they're not fixing the cause as to their own relationship issues that caused them to keep people at bay or to cause people to leave them or they keep manifesting the same type of person the same abusive person the same cheating person maybe it's the per the different person but the same character so i know for myself this was another thing that i had to figure out the hard way again this is not taught this has to be learned through experience people teach the contrary is that the imaginal act itself the visualization of being with that person is a small fraction of what's being created as it relates to relationship so you can imagine being married to a person and you could say okay i've never imagined anything else i just imagined being married to him why is it stuck or they manifested but then they left the a belief is a subconscious blueprint that's playing without us being aware of it at all which is why it's subconscious that is executing or creating all day long every day and while you're asleep so to go in and create one specific imaginal act and to let it go even if you had imagined it a million days in a row it doesn't matter because you have hundreds of other beliefs creating all the time so the idea of changing beliefs should actually is paramount and should be considered that as compared to an imaginal act of visualizing but it's also important to know how that works i've heard this thing until my ears bled that if we love ourselves then other people will love us this isn't psychology 101 that has nothing to do with manifesting and it um it literally just says doesn't have anything to do with manifesting the these actual solution would be not loving myself although that would be great because everything is better when you love yourself but imagining how other people see you so your belief isn't just how you see the world er let me rephrase it it's not how you see yourself it's not what you believe about yourself it's not what you believe about anything it's about all things worldly so how i believe the world works that's my self belief even though it doesn't seem like it's about myself my beliefs are my own which is my self's belief so it's my self so my self pushed out means all my beliefs about the world all my beliefs about relationships in general people leave other people people are always gonna leave me no one's gonna love me people date me and then they leave i always get jealous after about three months i always find people who seem promising but then they leave i can never have long lasting relationships there is infinite of these that we all have it's not even necessarily bad but we're talking about relationships when i say it's not bad i mean not all of our beliefs are negative i'm just giving an example of those who suffer from relationship problems in the beginning or in the first place it's those beliefs that are executing all the time now they may go away entirely when we're single and we may really get our act together and feel great and we love ourself and we say i'm never going to let this happen again but then as soon as we get in a relationship boom the subconscious mind triggers that blueprint again and the same thing happens so the point is is to go in and change those beliefs those assumptions is the solution that's how you do it that's you create beliefs like relationships are always long lasting i always get what i want people are always loyal in relationships um on and on and on and on and then imagine what you want and then drop it and then boom you'll get it hi joe which is better to say today my car ride was super easy and safe or today i felt safe in in any car i wa i would very much love to know what the actual intention is always be clear on the intention is your intention that the person who you're going to be driving with today happens to be a maniac on the road is it that you're afraid you have a phobia that something wrong is going to happen while you're driving is it that in general you just want to make sure all your your rides are you know normal and safe so you take the actual want now i would never when i imagine say today period time plays no factor in manifesting because i'll give you an example i think it's going to make sense considering your subconscious replicates whatever it's handed meaning if you imagine today the car ride i took is safe what will happen is that exact replica will unfold in this world okay and the subconscious does not identify meaning meaning it doesn't take what you intend and create it so although in your mind you're intending that today means august 19 2022 but your subconscious doesn't know that doesn't care about that at all your subconscious take receives a statement that says today i was safe in a car say for example and it's going to replicate that which means it might not be today might not be tomorrow it might not be till next week or next year but eventually your subconscious will create the statement today i was safe in a car so it's only that day that today is meant to be so so days and times mean nothing genuinely you cannot speed up or slow down you can slow down a manifestation you cannot speed up a manifestation as it will always manifest in the fastest most compact most efficient way possible so in other words if you're trying to make today's car ride safe i would have said my car rides are always safe or i would imagine text messaging someone and saying wow the car ride was safe the car ride was great i would probably more or less though like i know for a fact i would go more general because i would want every car ride to be safe so you would go and say every [Music] driver i'm in a car with is careful and safe i always get from a to b i always get to my destinations in a vehicle i love driving i love being in cars i love the safety of a vehicle i enjoy safety in a vehicle whatever the case is i would create it general avoiding today or a date because it will come in the fastest way it can anyway and if you said something like always then that will mean it will literally have to happen on repeat every time i hope that answers your question you should use that for any topic any manifestation anytime anywhere just use always or every time or i love the fact that every time i see a message that i'll respond to i did not get the full one however but i'm gonna do this regardless let's see if i can find the rest of it no i cannot however what beliefs should i install if i really think it's normal for my nationality you would create a generalized statement dictating the opposite like all germans are nice to say right my mother my grandmother um i'm german from my mother's side partially and my mother always told me because her mom was very cranky and nasty so she always told me germans are nasty talking about her own mother she loved her mother by the way just that's what she told me and my father who's lithuanian and russian he always told me don't trust russians don't trust whatever so that played in my mind always even though i myself have pieces of german and russian and lithuanian and things of this nature that's what i was taught and so that's what i believed and so that's what i experienced so despite that the solution would be everyone is trustworthy um nationalities i would come up with some type of statement i would take a pen and a paper and i would come up with a statement that means nationalities don't have any you know any weight as to how people act or how people think or whatever so that's all you would do is just create statements that imply what you wish is true to be true it's really as simple as that no matter what it is my kale i want to hear it from your point of view can anyone manifest a relationship with me against my free will i'd manifest the answer but maybe others want to hear it can anybody manifest a relationship with you it depends because if you i'd normally come usually the best manifester the one who controls the imagination most the one who is directly in control is usually the one who gets the results right so um can anyone manifest a relationship technically it's possible but in my humble opinion and experience i have always gotten what i want to despite what anyone else wanted for me or imagined for me and always the conclusion in my mind comes to there's a couple possibilities one it's as i said two could be that they do get what they want but either a there's something happens that we can't understand like dimensions or something to that effect another possibility that i've seen is things happen but at a different time and another another way that is a fact is that you can't manifest something that someone else isn't capable of being aware of so most people can be aware of anything else that anyone can be aware of right so if say for instance i imagined a saint to become a murderer it's not going to be in their awareness and therefore it will not be as easy to force them to do that thing is it possible yes it's just not going to be easy that's the best way i can describe it that i've seen from my experience and from theory like if we just went strictly to theory on manifesting our desire exists in eternity somewhere which means it's absolutely possible for it to happen i'm not entirely sure how and when it would though it's probably something outside of my comprehension i hope that makes sense movement tried imagining a utah license platform on my car any advice license plate on my car gosh my mind is manifest moving to utah for over a year without movement tried imagining a utah license plate on my car any advice i think what i would do if that was my desire is i would take it to a couple different levels i would probably first imagine let's see due to spouse's job trying to manifest moving utah forever with no movement i would do a couple different imaginal acts i would be creative using a couple different techniques and if it's something that's super important to me that i really care about i will imagine multiple scenes after the end multiple techniques multiple statements multiple beliefs in general multiple assumptions the inundation of things because you got to realize if something is stuck that means there's something in the way which is always coming from yourself so you have to figure out what is it am i and there's troubleshooting criteria did i imagine the end did i impress it in my subconscious am i imagining properly um do i have beliefs that could be contrary to this such as i never get what i want or i always end up feeling trapped or i always hate where i live or whatever it is and i would go ahead and do multiple things that would ensure that at least one of them would impress my subconscious so to summarize and this is usually with every imaginal act that i care about choose multiple scenes after the end make sure i'm clarifying what i want and then imagining multiple things sorry my stream is giving me a message saying please use a keyframe frequency of 4 seconds or less sorry so if you don't mind give me a second just to make sure that i get this properly so it doesn't get shut down audio settings video settings your encoder or sending keyframes too often are not enough change so keyframes are sent every two seconds at 30 fps that is every 60 frames so at 30 fps that would mean if it's every 4 seconds then it would be 120 frames so i'm going to go into my settings real fast and see if i can change this i don't know what's going to happen with what i've just changed but we shall see all right i'll ask now because of this issue i'll ask that um i'll ask that we stop donating in case something happens and i get disconnected so i can get through everyone so from this point forward it's on you if you donate it'll be just as a token of good faith there's no obligation so i think that fixed the problem by the way but nevertheless let's do this um all right let me just finish saying what i was going to say let me wrap that up tammy choose a variety of different statements make sure different scenes make sure what you're imagining is in the ideal impression times which means in the morning or at night imagine that you i mean sorry ensure that when you're imagining you are going through everything needed meaning being present calibrating meaning getting the scene ready then begin to imagine it in first person and then make sure that you're thinking from the scene as well instead of thinking of the scene or thinking of yourself creating so that's what i that's what i have to say to that i hope that's helpful um and then on top of that it would be start creating beliefs and assumptions to facilitate you getting what you want such as i always receive this i always um you know i always get what i want i love where i live everything lines up easily for me things that are to just help you in general joanne thank you thank you everyone who donates by the way i really appreciate that i hope i um i hope i get across what you guys need sometimes i think there's been one or two times where when someone donates i'm like are they asking a question or are they just donating so who knows um justin when would be the best time to script do we need to get into a state akin to sleep or wait until we are sleepy before journaling very good question i think there are different ways to go about it i have done everything that there is you know that that you could try you do not need to be in a sleepy state to journal from the future it helps you it does help you it will help you however almost every time invariably when i am scripting from the future i'm doing it midday when i'm awake and alert so it will still impress there are just degrees of effectiveness the same as there are any technique visualization comes all the way on top nearing underneath that is conversation slash writing down going all the way down to the more passive ways like watching something listening something um that would be all the way towards the bottom so and then other aspects of effectiveness are nearing upon sleep or just when you wake up or imma meditating first or while you're taking a nap versus when you're fully alert and your mind is scattered will be the less effective time so i hope that makes sense most of the results that i get from scripting or journaling from the future or list method are from just while i'm awake doing it just normally as if right now when i got done or even what i used to do when i would work in an office is i would always have my notebook next to me and so even when i was in the process of programming or coding i would go and i would just pull out the old notebook and write down what i was thinking about that's it it'll still manifest so it's up to you again the things that i would be more concerned about are our ability to be present if i'm all over the place and able to concentrate it's better that i wait until a time where i even have a minute to myself where i'm not you know all over the place and so what i'll do is i will take out the notebook take out the piece of paper and i'll write down um like it's best a lot of times when i write down in a kind of brainstorming session i'm just getting this set up so it's my little journal thing i shared to some people yesterday i got a new mechanism that allows me to handwrite on my tablet so i get to read and write it's not a tablet it's an e-reader and it's awesome because it doesn't have the distractions that pull me in from some type of mechanism or device like a computer or a laptop or an actual tablet but it also allows me to read and write in the books or on a piece of paper so it's awesome because handwriting is one of the keys to manifesting quickly and easily when it comes to writing right scripting or journaling so but yeah ultimately in the end it's just all about can you be present and when i do these brainstorming sessions when i find that are really helpful i'll write down say i have a topic at hand say the topic is business so i'll write down i mean i don't know what's today's date i'll write down 8 19 22. business and then underneath i'll literally i'm not numbering it but i'll write bullet points or i'll write my icon from my um my journal that i have that if you guys have never downloaded that from my journal my index or my glossary you should really get that because it is fantastic it has changed my life and so i'll write down the icon that specifies a list method thing and i'll just keep going one after the other this could be during the day in the evening whatever but i'll give you an actual example as i write it and take my words as my thoughts pretend what i'm saying is actually my thinking so say it's business okay and um it's midday and i just had an idea okay i want to create this thing so there's a couple ways to do this and i would say if i'm doing the list method which is scripting from the future generally from the future in a in one way it would be so write down and i'll just say um i always find success i love the fact that creating products that help people can make me a living money always in huge amounts so that process that i just underwent is the literal exact process of what i do to manifest i'll write down i'll come up with a topic in my mind something that comes up because i want to create something and i will literally sit down and take a couple minutes whether i write down four separate things like i just did or i write down 10 or 20 some are longer some are very short and i just keep going that's it and then after i'm done with that i'm like okay i'm done boom close boom put my pen down and just back to work right so i hope that's clear for you i hope that's clear enough that's it and then it will manifest they manifest they caught they come out of order some will happen today some will happen in a week or a month from now but they all will happen all of them crap i think some of these evaporated okay here we go thanks for these lives do visualizations have to be super clear if so what helps with this no they do not your knowing of what it is is more important than seeing clearly because think about it you could see something as clear as day but it doesn't mean that you're experiencing it i can see the picture of something of a million dollars as clear as day but unless i know that it's mine well it could just be a picture right or it could be someone else's so to to take a certain degree of accuracy you don't just want to not visualize you want to do it to the best of your ability but you do not want to get stressed out over it you do want to practice do intentional practice with visualizing and then okay what was i oh hold on oh my god i lost my train of thought about that intentional practice with visualizing oh knowing and knowing cheese knowing as long as you know what you're imagining you know what you want you know who that is you know what they're saying you know whose voice that is you know what you're doing at the same time meaning not just i know why i'm imagining but you in your mind think it like i think wow that million dollars is mine wow that's i don't know someone famous that's matthew mcconaughey that usually what i lack in um spiritual attributes like or spiritual sensation sensations what i lack in my ability to visualize or hear i make up for in thought specific direct thought so but other words practicing deliberate actual deliberate practicing meaning saying i'm going to imagine a box of matches and i'm going to force it in the air in my imagination i'm going to feel the rough sandpaperish texture of it you do deliberate practice that will allow you to sharpen your skills because if you are capable of visualizing 100 hearing 100 knowing 100 thinking 100 etc there is zero possibility for you to not get your manifestation meaning if you can do all those perfectly which i mean take that as you will you will get it perfectly so practice makes perfect but again it's not necessary to be totally on point as long as you make up for it with some other sense how can i firm for the job can you explain why i wouldn't have to apply again what about manifesting a new business firm for the job i wouldn't necessarily affirm for the job i think i gave you an extremely thorough answer of exactly what i would do if i i wouldn't affirm for the job what would you say i got the job that would be all that you could say i received that job and i would do it loud and commandingly clear in my mind a couple times two or three times and then that's it repeating something robotically will have no effect repeating it for long periods of time robotically will still have no effect hearing something robotically without paying close attention will have barely any effect so what you want to do is perform an active imaginal act meaning imagine that revised letter imagine talking to a friend about how you got the job that's what i would do i would not use affirming for this because it's not it's not appropriate i hope i got that through and if i didn't that is the particular reason why i answered the question the way that i answered it but about manifesting a new business see affirmations unfortunately are not effective as are insinuated by a lot of people okay i'm not saying they're ineffective entirely but i'm saying as an example most i think this will stand out right the term affirmation comes from um the [Music] christian bible okay that's where the term manifestation comes from literally that exact phrase and the way we use it today comes from the king james version of the bible okay so it is visualizing the origin of that comes from the king james version of the bible okay um let me think what else the we are god comes directly from the point i'm driving home with this small subset of the answer of the question i'm giving is that um the way that modern humans the phrases and the tactics that we use to describe manifesting all comes from the bible right so i'm not saying that the bible invented manifesting because it existed long before the bible but i'm saying the terminology the descriptions the step-by-step instructions that's where it is derived from literally not in some conspiracy theory way but literally the phrasing and the usage if you go to first corinthians chapter 12 it talks about the manifestations of the spirit which is where you'll find that as the origin of the word and then it describes what we can do we can manifest miracles we can do this that and the third so when people talk about affirmations most of the time it stems from there's a couple places where that stems from or where the interpretation of it stems from a lot of it bleeds in from modern psychology with the idea that repeating something over and over which i already described this before but just repeating something over and over will in effect cause um they they they claim that this is going to change the re it's going to rewire your mind right but in the bible remember where the origin of the phrase manifestation comes visualization prayer believing you have already already received it imagining the end all of these things what it says about affirmations is it says do not use vain repetitions of anything to manifest what you want in other words repeating something over and over doesn't have the effect that people claim that it does it's a contradiction and again i think the very first question i answered about the you know what was that i forget but the question was um about living in the end and i said you know we've got to follow the right people because yes you have someone like abraham hicks who pretends to connect with the spirit world and she says to use affirmations but she says a lot of other things too that don't line up with the source of where she claims it's coming from she'll say oh yes the spirit abraham says this but literally abraham actually said not that so use if you want to use something like affirmations i would prescribe you to use inner conversations choose the statement that you want to impress in your subconscious and in your mind have yourself and another person that you choose someone trust to just have the shortest conversation in your mind it could even literally be i got the job at amazon and then but the critical part to this is having the other person say to you i'm so happy you got the job at amazon as a programmer and then one last time reiterating back i know i got it say that in your mind but instead of the vein repetition you would use let me get you that actually matthew 6 7 it talks about don't use vain repetitions when you're communicating with the heavenly father which is your consciousness as it says later use a conversation loud and clear in your mind commandingly loud commandingly clear discussing with another person all you have to do is repeat that until you feel the feeling of saturation or excitement and then it will impress your subconscious um also if you remove the phrase affirmation if i'm going to if i gave you the idea or summary like okay so you like using phrases like affirmations but what would be the proper way to do it what you would have to do or what would work the best is because you could repeat a phrase a thousand times a day walking throughout your day that would be less effective than you repeating it once but in a very specific way you say that phrase commandingly loud commandingly clear it's as if you are disciplining your subconscious mind you're disciplining yourself so if i said i got the job i got the job at amazon i got the job at amazon i got the job at amazon right it's going to be worthless in comparison even if you spend 10 hours of your energy on that of dispersed energy if you had loudly and clearly in your mind said i got the job at amazon you repeat it as many times as it takes for you to no longer be distracted so sometimes i'll have to repeat it four times five times the point is is to hammer out pound away till it's gone any other thoughts in your mind which will happen automatically when you repeat something loud and clear and focused and feelingly just as if your parent is trying to get you to stop playing with your toys and clean up when you're a kid and put them away if they just said okay put it away you'll keep playing you'll keep doing it and if they said put it away you still will probably keep doing it but when they say put it away okay that is it's best to treat your subconscious as a child and someone that listens to you and cares about you so if you did that one time it will have more effect than 10 hours of repeating an affirmation aimlessly so aimlessly meaning unfocused or unclarified or unspecific or insincere i hope that makes sense so for a business again it's going to be the exact same answer if you were to affirm what you would want to do is plan out a statement itself a business is different kind of just because it's it's a little bit of a different concept i still wouldn't necessarily choose one affirmation to do this i would choose multiple statements like i always get what i want i'm successful i you know my business is amazing i love the fact that i have a business so that's not an affirmation though that's a statement that i'm writing to impress my subconscious mind during the period i'm writing and after that i would transform it into a imaginal act of some sort so find a way you're really what you should use those command style affirmations as remove the word affirmation in general and just use command and enter command use an inner command on a one-off simple statement something not complex it could be i have my own business it could be i was accepted to amazon right it could be but that's not going to give you the breadth and the depth that you're looking for if instead you wrote i always get what i want i always am successful in every endeavor because something prevented you from getting accepted and that was a belief inside of you or something you didn't imagine so you want to use breadth multiple different beliefs multiple different visualizations it's much easier than you think it is you don't need to be completely clear on an imaginal act on a visualization it doesn't need to sound clear you just need to do it to the best of your ability i hope that's helpful to you you can do this it doesn't need to be perfect it doesn't need to be anything you just need to let your subconscious mind what you're doing you know all right any let's see if i can quickly get through this trying to find partners for my business what can i imagine nothing is working you're going to want to imagine multiple things you're going to want to research what it looks like in general for a team right partners for your business right i have the same thing going on literally same thing going on but it's kind of just a new developing thought in my mind that that's already starting to manifest but you really want to make think of what do you want and imagine it in different ways you know i love being part of a team i love the fact that i have multiple people in my business working towards the same goal just there are different reasons why it's not working and in those cases you want to aim towards general beliefs that you feel might be in the way it could have things to do with competition things to do with um selfishness or fear in the fact maybe there's something deep down where you're afraid that someone's gonna outshine you or like there's some and i'm not saying that's what it is but i'm saying you have to be objective and fearless and looking in yourself to say what could be preventing this from happening am i imagining something i don't really want do i want multiple people for a business but i don't really care about the business do i just want a team to have a business that's successful but it's not as important as to what it is so ask yourself these tough questions and then come up with different scenes scripts visualizations conversations affirmations right commands things that are going to help you get it if that makes sense all right just to let you guys know i did say please don't donate in the way to get a question answered because we are i do have more that i'm going to answer now but don't donate anymore if you want a question answer if that's why you're donating because there's not going to be enough time in the stream is going back to some errors so all right what comes next i think i found okay lisa do we have something from you thank you lisa i appreciate you okay thank you elise i appreciate you what do you do on a daily basis after you have imagined and you are waiting on your manifestation morris is like very specific i stay busy and focused on what's at hand in the beginning it wasn't as easy because i was suffering not having a normal life my manifestations were not luxury it was basics like i need to stop overdosing i need to stop doing heroin i need to stop getting arrested i need to stop um losing all my friends and money that was so it was like critical and so when i was waiting there was a lot of pain and so i built a flash flood of manifestations once i began to see a little bit of manifestations creep into my life i realized i could create a multitude of them so i started imagining hundreds of things listing thousands of things and my life as a whirlwind began to shift so my attention in the begin in the beginning wasn't just to stay busy my intention in the beginning was or where my attention was at was to obsessively create hundreds and hundreds of things to test manifestation to see the excitement of manifestation to have more mystical experiences which i was addicted to which was an amazing replacement for drugs let me tell you um so there was never a dull moment yes there was still pain but my reality was inundated by my creations you see so it was less i was less likely to be caught back into the pits of despair and aimless thinking as i was to analyze and figure out this reality as a whole eventually once the critical parts of your life get resolved then there are times where you have down time and in those times yes it's very easy to fixate on something but you'll over time first of all you'll come to it a realization that there's nothing that's worth being afraid over because you know it's going to be fixed in a way it's boring as hell but in another way it is good because you know nothing can ever permanently go wrong but even so there are things at times that i want now the key is to stay occupied stay busy so it's to not think about what you want by thinking about something else it's to not think about what you're trying to manifest by staying busy doing something else thinking about someone else talking about someone else talking to someone else rather in the times you're not focused on that singular manifestation or the times that it starts to build momentum and happen and there's a reason i say imagine and drop it because that's the best formula as long as you imagine it properly and you have no beliefs in the way then it will happen the fastest as you drop it right as fast as you drop it another thing that i do constantly now is work on beliefs so if i man imagine something and i'm waiting for something i'll work on any belief hundreds of beliefs that are related to that one aspect of my life to ensure that it's going to come in the best and fastest way possible so there's always something to do to keep busy and there are preferable ways to do that such as manifesting other things to a build your experience and be stay occupied which are crit all of those are critical so you shouldn't be doing nothing you should always be working towards training your understanding of manifesting stretching your imagination and working on the beliefs that are basically causing problems in the first place a lot of desires stem from faulty beliefs anyway we want a million dollars because we have a faulty belief about money we can't hold on to money so we think the solution is receiving a ton of it but that's never the solution the money will come and then evaporate again so to always work on the beliefs is really what what i would do and what i do my visual focus throughout a day keeps on my specific person and 3p being together doing beliefs work but it's not changing my focus so you definitely have to stop imagining and focus elsewhere like you're not supposed to fully saturate your mind as if this reality is real you need to imagine it and then live a normal life as if you've never manifested anything in the first place that's when the manifestation is going to unfold in the meanwhile you can work on beliefs you could also imagine that you're capable of staying busy imagine that you're really good at imagining and forgetting imagine that you're really good at imagining and then focus on something else that's what i would do thanks for the 20 carrie the specific person manifested in an incomplete way i discovered he secretly maintained a previous relationship trust trust is broken how do i correct this i still want him but i'm sidetracked by a major resentment i'm going to give you a simple answer because it is a simple thing that you would want to do it's not easy per se but it's simple the first one is to rewrite your beliefs with relationships so what that means i'm trying to think of a way to phrase this properly as if you were defining a brand new character that has nothing to do with you and you're writing down the attributes that's going to define their life it's kind of the outline of their character this person always has you know this person has a lot of money this person is lucky this person like as an example i'm giving you it's defining the overarching criteria not the specific things like she got 150 dollars by finding it on the ground but more or less money always comes to her she always blah blah blah blah so you're writing down and outlining a criteria that is that you would wish to be true for yourself but you're writing it as if it's you're defining a character in the first place so there's something that's a very common overlook that i did myself that i discovered as a problem is everything i would write down as what i wanted would always just be the opposite of what i didn't want so it would be like the problem the ob obviously there's a problem because i'm writing this thing like people women are loyal and don't talk to their exes after meeting me which obviously meant there was some sort of pain and problem there in the first place otherwise i wouldn't be writing that type of specific thing so in other words what you want to do instead is just write down like like that's an insinuation that shouldn't even need to be specified clearly which is why there's obviously a belief inside of you so in this case what i would do with my handy-dandy pen in my handy-dandy notebook is i would write down the idea which is kind of like um i don't know how you would really define that maintained a previous relationship so it kind of means in a sense like commitment so i write down commitment commitment knowing that i need to create some beliefs surrounding that for this new character um loyalty but really then also i think this is a big one is being open i'm just writing this down as well and then um being honest right honest and then another thing that that kind of sounds like is so you've got commitment loyalty being open honest and the word i'm looking for is kind of certain or um like the opposite of not uncertain the opposite of not questioning it so it's kind of like knowing that i'm the right one so knows what he wants so i would write down these kind of bullet points knowing and notice i'm not writing down the actual negative trait i'm just writing the aspect in a general way that needs to be changed such as commitment loyalty being open honest certain knowing what he wants certainly i'm going to label this specific person attributes and then i feel like there are let's see here secretly maintain a previous relationship so if he secretly maintained a relationship what would cancel that out that would have been um if they're honest and straightforward i like the straightforward one right things would be much different if he had been straightforward from the beginning because it wouldn't be a surprise and therefore you would know what was happening all along and you can make your proper decisions then and if you you know there would be nothing to be mad about because then it would be your decision in the first place whether or not you would choose to see him so i could see that um so from there you're saying how do i correct this and then you have to write think of for yourself some more things probably maybe like what i wish would happen oh and maybe what you wished would happen would be like um he apologized right he apologized and he never did it again you know x y z all the trades so you've kind of oh and then for yourself you would have to say you know i've forgiven him we're then you kind of want to write down how you feel and then how you feel about each other as well but then what you've got on the top those attributes you need to take those and convert those into imaginal scenes okay so from there you would say generally like um you want to write down all different aspects of your reality including romantic relationships you want to do platonic relationships people in general so and then you would go and you would say also not only you want to have it involved with them being that way so they are this way they feel a certain way they act a certain way they which is kind of similar to doing they do certain things so this is literally specifically how i go about doing this so now you have the outline and you would say okay these attributes such as commitment loyalty being open honest etc um always you know all right so i had like five listed in the beginning i think one two three four i had six listed in the beginning those are the core attributes that you wish to exist or to be changed the other two sections related to um the actual experiences such as he apologized he never did it again such and so forth and then the last thing i just outlined such as romantic relationships platonic people you know men in general and then also people are people feel people act people do all of those you want to essentially create a number of different statements and scenes which would utilize all your concept of reality relating these aspects i'll give you an example and then i'll wrap it up one say for instance what you're wanting to do here is mainly create statements and then from those statements you can if you choose to create imaginable scenes as well that will not only transform him but the way that you experience the world from here on out in general related to people and relationships meaning if it wasn't this person if you do this work if you decided not to be with this person the next person you would be with instead of this pattern repeating again which it will and it has in the past maybe not in its exact way but if once you straighten those out the next person you would decide to date if that was your choice then they would fit all the proper criteria that you want that's how it's done so in this case if i were to start out i would say okay these are the statements you know every relationship every romantic relationship that i'm in is based on commitment every man is honest loyal and open every man i date is honest loyal and open people in general are trustworthy i always make friends that are honest and trustworthy the people in my life give me true reason to trust them the people in my life are very straightforward i expect people to be straightforward i am straightforward with other people and myself man men are comfortable opening up to me men feel comfortable opening up to me and then once you create all these things all these possibilities that you feel if they were true right the whole point is creating beliefs that if they were true would change this whole process so once you list down it could be one to hundreds i've i've done usually it's way more than one though once i create these statements what do we do next right even writing them down hand written in first person point of view is enough to impress our subconscious but the ones we feel stick out most that we feel would make the most drastic changes we want to imagine those such as the conversation with a friend about you know i'm telling you yeah all the girls i'm in a relationship with are just super loyal honest trustworthy i'm super fortunate and then have the friends say i know you are every person is literally honest open committed and etc with you sure and then repeat it over and over right once you get all of that out of the way that's when you would go about expecting the results to happen that's when you would imagine specifically for this person and that's when it will happen i'm going to get through these fast now to the best of my ability to someone in north carolina i already warned you guys do not donate money if you're expecting to have a question answered anymore please if you want to donate just out of the kindness of your heart someone in north carolina it's very first for years so joe so if someone is nc no contact with specific person for a year plus does that mean you're not in their immediate awareness and so manifesting them back would be difficult and or not possible at that point oh no just the contrary often times when a person when you slip out of someone's awareness or when they slip out of your awareness to certain degrees it becomes much easier to manifest them or for them to appear back in your life because they're not weighed down in your mind with all the different attributes of why it wasn't possible before like if if your experience with a person before was that they were really mean and really nasty and you tried to manifest them being nice and they weren't nice they kept being nasty no matter how much you imagine when you pull away and they it doesn't have anything to do with them really but when they leave your sphere of awareness for a long time for a long period when you imagine that they're nice you will manifest it so much swifter and easier because most of it has left your mind of them being mean at least to a large degree it's less lively and so it'll much easier stick and stay in your mind and leave the long lasting permanent answer so hope that's helpful i have a bad cycle where i look at how long it's taken and get and get upset so i soothe by imagining the end again i am concerned though that this is not dropping the seed thus more delay yeah there's a so what you should be looking at is that it has to do with your beliefs there's something that is coming up in your mind that's causing you to think about time in this way and so instead of imagining again you're essentially as you said in your own words comfort yourself you soothe yourself you over you essentially smother or snuff out this fear or upsetting with something different which is imagining the end whereas the real answer and this might be stopping your manifestation in the first place is you're not addressing that fear itself you're not working on that fear itself covering something up will is never the answer ever because even if that person came back something will happen again to force that belief that you covered up or repressed to manifest it'll come out in different ways it'll manifest and multiply so you want to look at that itself what is causing the pain what is causing the fear directly identify the thought and ask yourself if there was a machine that created thoughts like this meaning the scene has a blueprint in it it has a seed or a series of seeds in it that generate these thoughts what would that seed be would it be fear of abandonment i'm afraid that i'm never gonna get this i'm afraid manifesting doesn't work i'm afraid that you know this person's not gonna love me i'm afraid whatever it is there's a seed that's creating those fears those are what need to be removed instead of just imagining the end such as i always get what i want in a timely fashion i always people always stay with me i always am with the person i love my relationships are always long-lasting and committed and fun and happy you whatever it is that's creating that negative thought that you're trying to run from you need to step backwards and remember that every thought comes from a belief or an imaginal act so what is that and remove that replace that create a new one and imagine the new statement that if it were true would cancel the old one that's how you do it thank you chloe i appreciate you oh my gosh oh no guys no more yeah uh nero do me a favor email business at sovereignmind. business at sovrinmind.com business at sovrinmind.com and say um Joseph said to email this account personally as the subject line please do that i'll check it myself do that okay all right do you have a new guided it's so funny i'm i'm in the process of researching a more effective way to create these meditations that's what i was going to have today for you but i didn't like what was coming up so um so i thought this was awesome so i did this there will be i promise you that is one of my top desires thank you you're the only one who speaks the truth that i've always been looking for thank you so much augustus i appreciate you many problems manifesting going to sound weird but i'm being blocked by a spirit which keeps telling me things and messing with my what's dr doctor you helped me so much i love you thank you thank you i would first and foremost see a doctor if it's telling you things seriously um not joking i see doctors um besides that i would imagine that i would write down and imagine thanking god for freeing you from fear and freeing you from whatever way you would describe to be free from in this case but i would also go more specific as to what you do want like i love having a clear mind i love being able to manifest easily i love knowing how to solve my things that i need solved um whatever it is that you feel would help you in this circumstance and situation is what i would do and then but on top of it creating general statements like i always know how to imagine what i want it so i always become aware of the things in my mind that i want to change that's what i did to start getting the statements that i needed to manifest in fact in order to manifest this business that's how i did it i imagined saying i'm so grateful i knew exactly what to imagine to start my business so you can ask for questions by pretending you already have the answer i have this i know this that's what i would do in your shoes but then also write down like i always can manifest what i want nothing is in the way between me and my end and then i would literally talk to someone like what i usually did and do sometimes to this day is like manifesting is the answer right and for me i had tons of problems with um relationships and i knew i could manifest it if i could just target what the problem was so i saw a therapist who pointed me in the right direction he said this is how you're thinking this is what's wrong with you and this is what you should be thinking so i'm gonna help you get there but what i did was i said oh that's what i should be thinking i wrote it down real quick and then i manifested that i think that way and that's how i overcame my problem with jealousy and security fear and mental things the same with ocd the same with problems it's important to go to the doctor because i never depend upon my own speed to manifest anything it's like someone saying oh i want to manifest me not having seizures anymore should they stop taking your medication that's not how it works you imagine first and then natural you keep taking your medicine then something will happen where maybe you end up going to the doctor and he says wow your brain has healed you don't need to take that anymore that's how a manifestation unfolds you can't force it into reality by taking an action but you can manifest it and then something will happen that will force you so i would see a doctor as well to see if maybe you can figure out what you should be thinking that's my suggestion i still do one-on-one coaching go to my website josephalai.com if you're interested in one-on-one coaching i also offer a vip program to make someone disappear from my reality i imagine a life without them in it meaning how would my life change if a person was out of it i wouldn't talk about them in the imaginal act i wouldn't think about them i would simply take time whether it was an afternoon or an evening or a couple days or a couple weeks and work on a draft of a reality as if i had never even known that person and so it takes time in brainstorming behalf because we have to work ourselves up into a reality where we're not thinking about them like we don't want to think oh my god i'm glad they're gone because you're reinforcing them and you're reinforcing them as a negative presence in your life so start brainstorming and figure out the life that would be without them in it and then imagine that don't wish poorly upon someone you will manifest something bad happening to them i've seen it before um just simply or wish them good or wish imagine them being the person that they are always meant to be that could be there's so many ways to go about this but i usually push out blessings and not curses so meditation for ideal life be wonderful thanks all right guys i'm gonna wrap this up at this point i'm really grateful you stuck with me throughout this i love this there are at this moment 400 people here on this live stream how awesome is that taking control of your life doing this to the best of your ability and then i hope you're also sharing this with people who are wanting to listen so thank you for being here i hope this was helpful come back again i'm going to do this again is it going to happen next week i don't know am i going to have a meditation i don't know something will be there next week though so thank you so much i'll see you again thank you thank you thank you 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