How I Manifested My Relationship With ATHENA RAVEN (Our Story) Part One

[Music] hi my name is Joseph Alai welcome to my channel and today I have the finally the long anticipated collaboration video between myself and Athena Raven and in this video series which will consist of two videos one on my channel and one on Athena Raven's Channel directly following this we will be talking about what process we went through to manifest each other we are in a relationship we manifested this relationship through um certain techniques or imaginal acts but we're going to talk specifically about what we did what process we went through and what's going to be really cool about this and that's unprecedented that you will likely not be able to find yet will be the mental processes that each individual goes through meaning what from my perspective did I do to manifest her and what from her perspective did she think what um synchronicities what things happened in her reality what thoughts that she have what actions did she take as a result of my actions and likewise we will also then talk about um the opposite what from her perspective of her manifesting a person did did she do and and you know and also what went through my mind what thoughts occurred in my head what things did I see as she was manifesting myself and so this should help to give you a thorough understanding of what to expect and also what to engage in yourself when you are manifesting a person whether that means it's a specific person a relationship that you already have set in your mind or a perfect person a general person which is the route that Athena and myself took But ultimately in the end you will come out with a deep understanding of what it takes to manifest a relationship and so I'd like to start first by introducing Athena Raven Athena Raven is a manifestation coach she specializes and exceedingly well can help people to get into the state of the wish fulfilled through C certain modalities of psychology or therapy and so do you want to share very briefly about yourself um and why people should go to your channel And subscribe and seriously she is awesome so go ahead yeah thank you um yeah I'm Athena Raven a mental health and manifestation life coach uh I've been well I discovered the lore about 20 years ago so that's how long my journey has been and um during that time as well I studied uh modalities of therapy in particular neural linguistic programming cognitive behavioral therapy and hypnosis which I do share some hypnosis audios as well on my channel to help people to shift their state of being deal with limiting beliefs using a mix of psychology and manifestations that's my my specialty awesome thank you thank you dear so before we begin as I said this is a two-parter now we're likely to do more videos we whilst we were planning this video we realized there are endless perspectives endless synchronicities endless incidents that unfolded up until this point endless things that were created far in advance that have yet to manifest and so there's so much stuff but with that said we will get to a nice point today that will be very helpful for yourself and also for you to get the gist on you know catch up with what's gone on and I I hope that will help set the tone for the future videos and future series um so for you guys please do ask questions in the comments um just to help kind of direct further videos because really we're doing this for you I feel we both feel that this the fact that this is something that can't really be talked about because many individuals who are manifesting a person will never know what they're thinking and in fact the person they're manifesting you don't really want to them to know that you're man manifesting them in most cases so the fact that you'll be able to take a glimpse into our minds and this is from scratch this is I like the fact that I had no idea who Athena Raven was prior to our first meeting um should give you hope and inspiration that you can manifest whoever you want even if you they don't know you even if you don't know them so um and besides that please definitely go to her Channel after this and subscribe to her Channel she has a lot of amazing content as you know I collab with nobody for the most part and um Athena has a lot of amazing content sincerely her heart is in the right place she teaches through experience like myself and so we click on that level so besides that definitely if you're new here um no matter what hit the like button to something to the algorithm so that those who wouldn't normally be able to see this will see this video hit the Subscribe button on my channel specifically I delve into systematic datadriven approach to manifesting in a predictable way as opposed to the kind of hope manifesting I hope this is going to work um I my uh Channel and what I teach is based upon my experience I've been tracking manifestations for 14 15 years um doing segmented tests tens of thousands of manifestations and so what I do is I teach the common denominators between what works so if if you are interested in that like I said subscribe and hit the Bell icon to stay notified every Tuesday and every Friday I believe I release new content talking about this exact stuff whether it's systematic manifesting success stories Etc so let's get into this I'm going to talk to you right now about what specifically I did what I thought and what happened as it relates to manifesting this lovely lady so you can apply this to your own life um and this circumstance jumping right into it I had just gotten out of a relationship when I had first taken the action to manifest a person the relationship that I was in was very unfulfilling I did not want to live that again this was around I think five years ago something to that effect now don't panic five years sounds like a long time my life did not stop in the interim I was in actually I'll I will tell you exactly what happened So within the relationship itself it was um the person that I was with was a cool person she was sweet she was um there was a lot of positive um very um you know functional relationship I had a functional relationship with her but again like I said very unfulfilling so when that ended what I did my first step was I constructed a list a list of criteria of whom I would consider to be an ideal partner now from that perspective because I had gotten out of the relationship that I was in that was unfulfilling I very much um wrote down criteria that would was based upon the lack that I was just encountering so there was some overcompensation and it was focused much more on shortsighted manifestation much more upon certain ways that I would feel at the time physical attributes more surface level things so I wrote it down from the perspective of um I wrote down my wife and then I started to write down criteria she has dark hair she has um you know she's beautiful she is ex height she is she does this type of thing for a living so much more physical attributes related to reality what ended up happening as a result of that was I manifested a person who I would consider to be the faker That's What I Call this individual so she was someone who fit a bunch of the criteria that I had written in that list but accompanying that because I was not specific as I was um talking about the important aspects of a relationship such as compatibility and things like this so I manifested this person but the relationship crashed and burned and as a result of that I went and I constructed a second list so this is what was fascinating and we ended up um we'll probably talk about this right after I I I give this little story but um the second list was far more exhaustive and far more indicative of the ideal relationship so specifically at the top I wrote down wife and and then I wrote proceeded to write down attributes such as perfect compatibility so for literally what I wrote down was we have per perfect compatibility we or she is completely loyal she is completely trustworthy we get along in all regards we grow together we maintain perfectly perfectly compatible and on and on and on we have the same interests um you know uh just all these different facets that the way that I looked at it was I thought to myself if I were to ask my grandma or Grandpa what it was that caused them to you know Outlast a 50-year marriage essentially you know from the point of where they were at what would they say so there's cliche things that people say another thing that I wrote down was perfect communication these words perfect they were Broad and General in nature but specific to the degree of what was important and this together essentially is what came to be the list that man manifested Athena Raven but it wasn't right away that that happened essentially what happened after I wrote that second list was I closed my journal and I just proceeded to live my life I ended up getting into a relationship that was over three years and it was again extremely unfulfilling now along that time I had worked on myself and the EXP you'll come to find out whether it's in this video or another one that the things that happened in that relationship put me in the in the perfect place to be set up to meet Athena Raven and when I say perfect I mean absolutely profoundly perfect so in other words what ended up happening was after the relationship crashed and burned and after when I say Crasher burn I mean it was it was an horrendous ending that left me paranoid it left me in a position where I could not trust other people could not trust women at all um and um essentially what happened was right before I met met Athena I was in a place where I like I said I could not trust people I was entertaining conversations with women but I would end any type of conversation before they ever got to a place that led to something that would compel me to have to trust someone like revealing any type of personal information about myself whatsoever what happened was the night before I met Athena I was on my brother was at my house and I was um recording something and he was helping me recorded it was for the channel and I used the word methodological but when I said it I stuttered I completely butchered the word me and my brother started laughing and we both agreed that I was just going to remove that entire segment from the audio clip and I would not use that word again right we all know that I talk about systematic Stuff Etc I don't know why I chose to use I could have just used methodical but I decided to use methodological which still is a word by the way but just one that can get you completely tongue twisted tongue tied um but ultimately that was the end of that night the next day I got a voice message from someone named Athena Raven I listened first of all I clicked on it I clicked on her image and I said she was cute she's cute I listen to the voice message which I by the way I do not do uh generally I don't go on social media rarely go on social media so but I listened to the message and it was her asking well first of all she said that she admired my work my work that was methodological but she stuttered in the exact way seriously as I had the night before so immediately it triggered something in my mind and I knew that I had to speak with her now the her message itself was asking it was a compliment on my work and then it was asking if I wanted to do a collaboration so I set that aside entirely like meaning the idea or the question of the collaboration I was like like okay I'm not even listening to that right now I just need to talk to this person so I said I said can you do a voice a voice call right like an actual call right now and we ended up she ended up talking to me she called me essentially we talked for over 5 and a half hours now initially I'm assuming and she could fill you in probably I'm assuming that she thought that I was calling with regards to the collaboration but really yes of course but really I was in interested she was cute I had this it was very interesting the way that she had stumbled upon the same exact word the odds of that happening are astronomical if anyone has ever taken probability right it's one of the ways that I really started to believe manifesting right astronomical same word same stutter impossible um but nevertheless what was amazing is the moment we started speaking we had everything in common literally everything in common we had the same tastes the same music taste the same interests the same sense of humor um the same thought processes and belief systems with regards to manifestation which by the way you might think is common but when you start to really go through the intricacies of what other manifestation coaches talk about their beliefs are on entirely different levels Athena as well as myself believes in experience teaching which you will not generally find anywhere most people regurgitate what they've heard from another coach who's regurgitated what they've heard from another coach who's regurgitated what they've heard from another coach and on and on and on the incest continues at infinitum but the difference would be the testing the experience and so from there we like I said we talked for five and a half hours I was smitten immediately like I said Athena didn't know that I wasn't communicating with her with regards to the collaboration although I think her hopes were up regarding that and hey look it ended up coming right but um you know from there it was all easy peasy we ended up talking the next day we ended up from that point on we spoke to each other every waking minute aside from coaching and recording and I am not kidding which then turned into even sleeping on the phone together um we essentially there's always this idea generally in reality that people have to kind of play the game you have to take it easy one person usually likees someone a little bit more at first so you have to you know don't get too excited don't there's all these different rules of laws of games of dating per se but what was very interesting that I could say is independent to hers and I relationship right off the bat is that there was no gam playing there was no questioning there was no wondering what she was thinking there was nothing never wondering where you stood ever and I'm I'm saying never we both had feelings the same time we both felt extremely comfortable opening up to each other and one thing that was was amazing that and I'll end it on this is as I said prior I was paranoid about getting into relationships forming connections with people my ex without getting into too much detail had some of her friends posing as other people to try to communicate with me and so this was a huge um problem in the beginning but what was interesting was on our second or third conversation Athena and I she told me randomly kind of as an afterthought just randomly she was like yeah I emailed you back in the day too what was interesting was right then and there I opened up the email I found it she was absolutely correct what's amazing was in a synchronicity is she ended up sending me an email the day after I started dating my ex that was over three years ago but to the day day after which was absolutely amazing but what that proved to me not only was it auspicious that okay this is probably something that baby what she would come after maybe but it's verified that she had no relation whatsoever in anything regarding my ex she was Far prior to any problems she was um completely safe and that helped me open up which ultimately led to where we are today so with that said um yeah I want to I want to pass it over to Athena for you know to to get get your input on that and what you think with regards to that or any thoughts that you may have what do you think what you think dear what you think no I mean that's interesting so you see we're looking at it from your perspective as well what you went through what you decided so you had absolute Clarity on what you wanted and then you enjoy listing things down and actually writing things down don't you but you said that you didn't imagine any of it you literally just listed down the attributes of and we were talking about how even in just comprising this list putting this list together that inadvertent you are essentially imagining it you are bringing it to the FL of your Consciousness because in order to compile that list of what would be my ideal relationship what would this relationship contain what would my perfect partner contain what kind of qualities would they have you would have to ponder on it and go and visit that in Consciousness bring that to light and then writing it down is just your way of I suppose cementing it isn't it absolutely so there was no imaginal act no sets no affirmations nothing zero nothing and what's interesting we talked about this prior was like there were two separate occurrences I wrote down list a and list b list one and list two but each manifestation you know for my personal experience it has kind of been shown that each imaginal Act has its own reality created as a result of it so how was it that two separate instances of constructing a reality morphed into this single one and we kind of thought about how each person that you end up that ends up having a big part of your life or someone that you're attracted to or someone that you date instills something plants some sort of remnants of themselves their good traits will be left within the subconscious and so it wasn't necessarily the first list and second list that merged together but it was the first list manifested a person whom there were certain traits that were acceptable to me along with others from other people in the past but those traits then would have merged together with the list that I was writing and therefore it was all just one manifestation which is very interesting so the point being is constructing a list an imaginal act whatever it is that you do what is was super effective and impactful here was the fact that I was very clear and concise there was no doubt it wasn't a specific person per se that I was after which could then bring along with them all of their baggage all of their positive and negative instead it was just the reverse it was specification of the traits which then would narrow down to God the bridge of incidents would compel someone who matched those characteristics to a which could be one person five people 10 people 100 people the odds or probability of an individual matching your criteria drastically increase when you make it a little bit more General it allows for more potential more more Bridge of incidents to unfold the perfect way for it to unfold will happen in a more effective sort of easier way with less resistance and in this case it happened amazingly and in this case there are certain you know and like we're you know I don't want to go for too long on this but I'll just say this the general manifestation for me in this case seemed to be the best one that's ever not seem it's absolutely the best case scenario ever you know matching all criteria and traits that I could have ever dreamed of is that's what the manifestation unfolded with with Athena so I think with that sweetheart I think with that said um I would like to say you should probably head over to the second aspect the second part of this video the second segment of this how to manifest a person video what the thought processes entail Etc um yeah we'll talk about it from my point of view and what I did y but also um we discuss a bit of how our Bridge of in of incidents not only unfolded but how my manifestation affected Joseph yes and how his affected me because we people always say about um what's happening on the other side and are they thinking of you and um you know what if my specific person for example if it's a specific person or something is very very stubborn and they've always said that they didn't want this and they didn't want that and can I change their mind and stuff I was actually influenced unbeknownst to to me by your list and I changed my mind about things that I had said adamantly like 100% you know I'm not interested in marriage I'm not interested in you know having children I wasn't you know there was a few things a few um things that I was quite certain about for the longest time and then suddenly started to change my mind about and it felt very natural it felt very organic it felt like it was coming from me like it was my personal decision but maybe it wasn't so definitely just go to that next video right now but do me a favor quickly hit the like button hit the Subscribe button if you want more of these like you will have the power to control what we talk about if you want to know what we were thinking at a certain time if you want us to make a video on a certain topic related to our manifestation if you want to know whatever you want to know because we do have these open discussions about what state of mind we're in what natural thoughts have occurred how did that affect the formulating of our reality and the paths that we that we took so subscribe to this channel if you are interested in the broken down methods I observe manifestations from an objective perspective and get the common denominators that's what I do so do that hit the like button hit the Subscribe button hit the Bell icon but more importantly now go into the description and click the video link to go to Athena Raven's Channel it will go right to the video for the next part so thank you so much for being here I hope you like this definitely comment ask your questions below for sure and then head over to the video peace