Embrace Stoicism & Apatheia: The Path to Manifesting Mastery | Transform Your Reality

[Music] hi my name is Joseph Alai welcome to my channel and today I want to talk about the process of manifestation and the stoic principle of apatha which is essentially nonreactivity or not allowing emotion take over for me often times in my channel I will say something to the effect of Simply imagine the end and let it go and watch the universe systematically and perfectly or orchestrate itself to give you your end but then reality hits and we are all human beings and I myself am not perfect I have had a lot of trouble in the past controlling my mind and so to say that I simply and easily have been able to perfectly craft this reality with the blink of an eye without having any resistance any fears any doubts insecurities or things of that nature would be just a lie and I think for those of you who are struggling with the ability to control your mind to drop it to let go to not be overrun with fear and doubt and insecurity well this video will help you to utilize the principles that I have utilized to help me shape and craft this reality and even Manifest this house before we begin hit the like button it does something to the algorithm so that those who wouldn't normally be able to watch this video will be able to watch it also hit the Subscribe button to join on the goal to hit 100,000 subscribers which we are almost there um hit the Bell icon if you want to stay tuned for more systematic broken down methods on how to manifest your life in a predictable way without hoping but knowing and we have a podcast we've got Instagram we've got Tik Tok and so stay with me follow me hit up the email list do all this stuff and follow me also I'll be traveling soon and doing collaborations which you will see is going to be awesome so stay tuned follow whatever whatever you have to do just to be along this journey and learn how to manifest your reality in a predictable noons no joke no BS way so jumping into it then apatha Greek word and this is a stoic principle that refers to not allowing your emotions take over so stoicism lately is a you may have heard of that term before that word that phrase and often it gives an idea of no feel or stone cold or not reacting to something really just not showing emotion but stoicism is a philosophy and people dedicated their entire lives to it I think with manifestation it fits so perfectly and yet it's not spoken about with really from anybody it's something that I in my own time started reading and researching with Marcus Aurelius and his meditations But ultimately began to implement it into my life when I realized that say the scripture itself is really beautiful at teaching you how to manifest but what about your dealing with your mind what about controlling your thoughts what about nonreactivity what about objectivity what about having peace and confidence and virtue and courage and these things that aren't necessarily essential for a person to manifest their desires for me this was a huge missing piece and I had to learn how to hone in and reel in my mind as a center and go back to the center and relax and calm down so that I could control my mind enough to create reality as I wanted without creating a bunch of crazy stuff in the middle so apatha is a concept that I look at as being detached from the external World in stoicism it's all about controlling ones self it's not that I blame you you are making me react no it's what's wrong with me that is causing this reaction to what you are saying if we can Master our ability to objectively look at situations and break them down and perceive them in a different way will be able to manifest at such an easier and faster rate so apathe in this regard is referring to at least as in the way that I'm teaching it with manifesting right now it goes hand inand with Imagining the end and then not reacting to situations outside so reacting in situations in the external world first of all we're creating every single situation outside we may not realize it we may not have done it on purpose in fact the majority of this world probably 99.999% of it is created subconsciously by us we will have zero idea or indication as to what we've created or how we've created it however there's always a one toone ratio between this thing we're experiencing and the Inception point which is in our mind and so knowing that in of itself makes it a lot easier some of us might not be able to take that like how did I create this thing in my life or I'm not imagining that how could I be creating that but in truth when you continuously begin to analyze and look at your reality it is true and so since that is true it gives us all the power if you want to point your fingers and say it's because of my brother I am insecure or it's because of my girlfriend that I turned into a cheater or it's because of my dad that this or that well then you literally actually are giving them the power to control your reality but when you say okay I may have some uh some responsibility here I may have some conclusion or blueprint or assumption or fear or doubt that exists within the subconscious I may maybe entertaining such thoughts that are forcing this reality to stay in that manner so that is one way to objectively observe reality to take away the helplessness and fear that we are not in control now but when it comes to Imagining the end and then waiting for our manifestation to come we're supposed to have an air of neutrality an air of yielding a an air of confidence now now it's not necessarily so that we're supposed to have this full-blown knowing that something's going to happen like in truth that would be delusional and delusional is not manifesting manifestation is essentially Imagining the end with the intensity and realistic ability to observe this reality in our imagination to the degree to which it is perfectly realistic and after that we let go upon shaping that that seed which is what's happening when we're imagining we craft it and the DNA of that seed consists entirely of the scene that we imagine not nothing else nothing further or nothing beforehand and upon imagining that thing what we have to do after which is commonly mistaught often times people will say oh just keep doing that continuously never let go the problem with that is we never stop conditioning the seed it's we're conditioning it we're molding it we're shaping it we're the Potter right we are crafting this thing in the likeness of our mind and then we must let go and detach from the circumstances to the degree to which we can detach is to that same degree will we be able to allow this thing to create without our interference and so what happens when we're in a situation when we want to manifest a boyfriend or a girlfriend and we are specifically visualizing oursel ending up with this person but then we're witnessing them doing something else than other than what we want fear insecurity jealousy rage helplessness hopelessness whatever all of it all of those things have the capability of entering into the mind and therefore imagining these horrible things and imagining these horrible things if we continuously fixate on it if we clearcut visualize these horrible things if we do not control our mind right or if we repress it and we just switch these thoughts continuously without looking at them well then we are going to be in for a rough ride now that's not to say that we won't manifest our end but we will probably manifest a ton of a horrific Bridge of incidences which I've done my whole life until I learned how to control my mind how to detach from it so some of the tools to detach are those that I use now that help me to have a smoother ride you can in essence control the bridge of incidents by allowing yourself to let go so how do you let go how do you use this stoic principle that I'm talking about here it's looking at in this way that I'm talking about it's looking at it in a different way it's looking at circumstances and realizing for instance if you are manifesting a specific person and they are still entertaining a relationship with another person or they are not talking with you right now they haven't texted you they blocked you whatever the case is you and your mind have the power to do two things you can either freak out and continuously create more horrific things because of your inability to think clearly or you can put your foot down and say what is happening here right what is happening Here I Am the creator of this reality so whatever is happening is only as a result of me I have put it in this situation it is in right now I may not have meant to do it but I've done it and since I've done it I can continue to do it again I can do it again I can imagine something differently I can shape this the way that I want so in this case looking at it and saying this doesn't matter it's not being delusional it's not pretending continuously that you're still with this person when you're not in physical reality that's delusional and it's fake it's not the pretending in physical reality that gets us our end it's the actively utilizing our imagination and impressing this thing in the subconscious and then letting go and then carrying on that's what gets it so there's that difference there's a discrepancy between teachings that talk about continuously maintaining in the state there's a problem there because there's always going to be a discrepancy between that moment right now where I'm married to this person well they're dating someone else so what's going to happen you're going to freak out so realizing this state is temporary just as it was before just as it will be after I simply have to fill my mind in a temporary way with an imaginal act right in Scripture it says paraphrase that we are to fill our mind with the image that we want allow it to saturate our mind mind and then our Consciousness which sees our thoughts will reward us openly will Manifest this thing in the external world with that said our goal then in that case is simply to temporarily imagine that end and then let go and the rest happens on its own and the rest of the time is working on observing reality and showing how it doesn't matter the rest of it doesn't matter it's all in the middle none of that matters you have placed it in this position now your beliefs have created the way that it is now you've changed things before you're changing things all the time watch what happens when you shift your reality and watch what happens when you sorry shift your thoughts and watch how your reality changes so if you change 10% of your thoughts you change 10% of reality you know roundabout not in the exact order or you can't really know exactly when that's going to happen but in other words these are the types of things you need to do to realize that this is all your creation you're not just creating one piece and not the other yes you might want something right now you might not have it in your hands but in your imagination you've already said it now it's time to let it go so point is imagine the end and then realize that the whole thing is your creation although there's a discrepancy you have enough evidence to reflect back on to realize that you've created this whole thing think of the thoughts that you used to think that created the reality that you're in now think of the feelings that you used to feel that created the reality in now what I do is I keep track of all of my manifestations to a realistic degree now there's so many of them the smaller ones I don't necessarily do but I've got I mean I have a whole I had a safe in San Diego before I moved I mean filled with like I mean I don't know if you could see that's probably three four foot of all manifestations because I can look at it and it'll snap me right out of the fear-based ideologies that a human being has and it will bring me more down to Earth and I'll realize the power that I have and so the key is is to objectively look at reality if you're reacting to reality there's a problem you have to revert back into the core of yourself your true self your I am right you have to be true to your nature your true self that state of who you are and you will get anything that you want but if you still identify with the human point of view the point of view where you're helpless where you can't control another person where you're reacting because they're still with this person well then you're not really doing the deal you're not really doing the deal so the point is to the best of your ability imagine the end and objectively reason yourself to realize why you are in control is one of the greatest tools that I have used or break things down into some of their parts But ultimately the point is is when you do this is when you will have the power so I want to just stop there for now I have so many more videos on these topics that have helped me to master manifestation that I haven't talked about before right which I know for a fact you can utilize now and master this yourself as well so if you liked it hit the Subscribe button let's get 100K hit the like button let that algorithm take hold and spin me to see the whole world or the whole world to see me hit the Bell icon if you want more systematic broken down methods on how to manifest what you want um hit up that podcast hit up my Tik Tok hit up my Instagram hit up the email list and there's probably a whole lot of other stuff I'm traveling soon you're going to have to follow along with me I've got a collab coming up you will see it's going to be a surprise for you got some cool stuff happening so make sure you follow along if you want to be the first to be in the no also imaginal scenes are epic people have been manifesting like insane from them they have been listening and boom manifestations have been fulfilled what if you don't know what I'm talking about watch my previous videos or just listen to me now I am creating IM scenes for people and narrating them so that people are able to get their perfectly crafted crafted meticulously created imaginal act so that you can manifest what you want and I'll stop it there thank you so much I'll see you next time happy holidays peace