Anti-METHOD for New Beliefs & Assumptions (It's Not Affirmations) | Manifesting Mini-Series

Hi. My name is Joseph Alai. Welcome to my channel. And today's episode three of the turning manifestation into a lifestyle mini series. And today, we are going to be talking about beliefs and assumptions, which is the cornerstone of reality. Last episode, we talked about the feedback loop of creation, which is the way that we manifest everything. So if you're looking to understand every single moment of this reality, how you have come to this point right now and how to circumvent the creation mechanism to create whatever you want, go to that video. And for this video, the idea of assumptions and beliefs are something that there's it's shrouded in confusion. There's so many people with different ideas, but there is one source of truth and that truth can be experienced through testing. All of what I'm gonna tell you is what I have experienced firsthand. And not only that, I've been accepting success stories, analyzing and interpreting what I've gotten through them for thirteen years. And through that experience, through that those exercises, that's what I bring you today. This isn't something I've read in the hundreds of books I've read. This isn't what I've learned in university, in my physics classes, in math. This is all tested. This is none of this is conspiracy. None of this is speculation. So this is what you can use if you've been experiencing patterns over and over again. If you're wondering how your reality is created through your thoughts, assumptions, beliefs, or experiences, this is the video for you. Most people fail to realize that it's not just your imaginal acts. It's not just what you think. It's not just what you're affirming or your inner dialogues or monologues are going on about that creates a reality. That's only a small percentage of it. And studies that I've taken or or that I have analyzed through experience and experiments show that that's only, like, 1% of our reality. So what's creating the problems that you're encountering in your life? What is crushing your relationships? What's causing you to be broke? What is causing the patterns to happen over and over again? Because let me guess, you've affirmed a gazillion times or you've done all of this stuff, but nothing has been able to cause you to get your manifestation. Or maybe you've got it and it's just vanished. That's the majority of people out there. So without further ado, what is an assumption? What is a belief? You're gonna hear a lot of things. You're probably gonna even hear, in most cases, I find this to be true. Nowadays, most people, when they cite beliefs or assumptions, they're referring to these psychological approaches and that have nothing to do with manifestation. Manifestation has its own vernacular. Manifestation is the cause of reality. Anything referring to psychology with regards to, what you would learn in a psychology book and manifestation is not the exact same thing. So an assumption with regards to manifestation as Neville Goddard puts it is that which you assume to be true. It's as simple as that. And those assumptions, although they may not be concrete beliefs are constructing and manifesting reality every single moment of the day. In other words, 99% of your reality is your assumptions and beliefs. So again, it's not what you deeply hold to be true. Your core values, that's nothing to do with this. It's not how you value yourself. That's not what your concept is. Right? The self-concept consists of assumptions and beliefs and in order to create a reality that you want, you wanna have all the money in the world, you wanna have the best wife or husband, you wanna have the greatest life, work on your beliefs and assumptions. So clearly and simply an assumption is that what you assume to be true. That is a generalization is another word for an assumption. It's what you expect to happen day in and day out. It's not a concrete belief. It's not I believe with my values and morals. That has nothing to do with this. This is those generalizations you just expect to be common knowledge. That's another way to put this. That is an assumption. Those are existing within your subconscious mind, and they have been up until the point where you're seven years old. You are are molding and shaping your reality. Could you imagine if you handed a magic wand to yourself as a seven year old and said, okay. Construct the rest of my life. Would you do that right now? Would you give a seven year old version of yourself a magic wand and tell it to create your reality for you and that you have no choice in the in that at all? No. No way. But that's effectively what's happening. Up until we're seven years old, our subconscious is purely impressionable. It's always being impressed continuously, molded and shaped by our influences. And whether that's just our reality in our environments or authority figures and all the things that they tell us, we just accept into our mind and that becomes the blueprint. That material molds and hardens into the fact which becomes our reality. So could you imagine that? Imagine people who live in if this were true, that would mean people who lived in chaotic households or in poverty or in violence or abuse. Those people would grow up to be messed up. Their realities would be completely filled with the same likeness that they experienced as a child. They would in fact manufacture it. That would be crazy. Right? That's what's happening. Look around. That is what's happening. That is why people are stuck in the same cycle. That's why if you're in a relationship and you've been cheated on, it's gonna happen again and again. That's why if your father or mother was not loyal, the chances are you're going to manifest a partner with similar likeness. Until you intervene and change and modify these patterns, you're effectively screwed along with the rest of the world. And mainstream people, society as a whole, they don't teach this. They teach psychological approaches to go in and deeply understand all the different aspects of a person psychoanalyze. Right? That's Sigmund Freud at about a hundred years ago. He started that that fad that you had to take years to delve in and do all of this stuff in order to understand yourself and then you could possibly change it. But guess what? Before that before that moment in history, people could simply and this was across the board. You could just think of a new belief and assume it and it would happen. So it's only because of the assumption that it's hard to change a belief that it becomes hard to change a belief. The process that we undergo, the things that we search for to find solutions to answers are all gonna imply complexity and slowness. But when we realize that in and of itself is an assumption, that in and of itself is a belief, the truth of the matter is is all we need to do is identify the problems and we can change them. So step by step, what am I talking about here? When we were children, we realized our world around us consisted of certain patterns. Something would happen. We would experience it. As I talked about this in my last video, something would happen. We would experience it, perceive it, and then impress it. That's just across the board what we probably did millions of times going up until the age of seven. Now it didn't stop there. It slowed down after that. It's still happening to this day. Traumatic, tragic, or extremely powerful experiences are also shaping our beliefs and assumptions. Or extremely powerful influential information or material can deeply influence or shift our perceptions and modifying our subconscious mind instantly. Those things that we experience, that we accept to be true, that across the board we assume are just general facts of nature, almost as we generally accept that the sun is gonna rise and set. That's the degree that I'm talking about here. It's you thinking that when you're gonna go outside, it's gonna be cold. Or when you go to England, it's gonna be wet. Or people are generally nice. You would think across the board people have the same levels of assumptions and beliefs, but the truth is is that not everyone does. But in our small corners of the world, our own social circles, we realize people are thinking very much the same. But when you go to different spheres, different groups of people have different understandings of the world altogether. Think now of people who just constantly manifest success in their life. It happens without struggle. You've probably met people like this or seen people like this. And you wonder how did this happen. It's their assumptions and beliefs. Yes. They've likely also imagined an outcome that would align them with their desired outcomes, their success, and their riches. But the way that the bridge of incidents is unfolding consists entirely of our assumptions and beliefs. So in other words, if you've ever experienced something and then therefore manifested it in its likeness, The way that that happens, the bridge of incidents is also first of all, let actually, let's let's rewind a second. When you're a kid, you'll experience a thing. That thing gets impressed within the subconscious. For the rest of your life, you'll manifest that thing over and over. That pattern will happen. Sometimes there are delays. Sometimes there are trigger points. Sometimes something will lay dormant for decades until you experience something similar to what you've witnessed as a child and then boom, it will happen again and again and again. I've had experiences in my life especially related to romantic relationships where I was insecure, fearful. My attachment style was anxious, insecure. And what that meant was I would be really cool and normal and natural and whatever when I was single. But then the moment I would meet someone and fall in love, it was a trigger that would switch on like nothing else. And there was nothing that can stop me and no one that can stop me. And nothing that can prevent this from happening, I would turn into anxious, insecure, fearful. They were going to abandon me. They were going to hurt me. They were going to lie to me. That was what was going to happen. But how did that happen? That wasn't my first like, I never had anything before that in a relationship that would cause that. How did that trigger? It triggered because of my childhood. I remember a very specific instance when I was young and my father was teasing me that my mother was never coming home and I internalized that. And I remember this because I manifested that I would remember the reason why I am the way that I am. And that memory came to me like a bolt of lightning, and I realized that that experience, although she did come home, left an indelible stain upon my subconscious causing me to manifest situations forevermore where my relationships were doomed to fail. Now that's my personal experience. And I have many more like that that caused doom and gloom in my life for decades. But what are yours? Think back to the experiences that define you. Now if you can't do that, that's still perfectly fine. The point of the matter is is you can replace these assumptions and generalizations. What is the way we can define these? How do we pick these out from within us? Well, our subconscious mind is always creating a reality, which means you can look at reality right now and know that it came from you. And if you know it came from you, then you can find what created it. How do you know what created it? Well, you have to ask yourself if something within me has created this experience, what would it be? And that is the question that you have to repeatedly ask yourself until you come to the conclusions that you need to to to discover. And once you discover those conclusions like everyone leaves me, I'm not good enough, I'm not important, you can then find the opposite. So impressing the subconscious mind, although extremely powerful experiences naturally do this. You can emulate the process by suspending your natural state of consciousness and injecting these new assumptions and beliefs on the unconscious mind. And to do that, you have to first define what it is that you want. So in the case where you're experiencing negative patterns, people always cheat on me, people always leave me, I can never keep money, every time I get money it leaves me. You you know what you don't want and therefore you know what you do want. That's easy. You find the opposite of the things you don't want or something relative to that. The next step would be to write it down from the perspective of as if it's already true. And when you do that, that in and of itself, if you do this with your, you know, just longhand and you write this down, that in and of itself, just like the list method, is another video that that fourteen day system that teaches you how to master manifesting teaches you that all you have to do is write stuff down in order to manifest it. So you can do that and then you'll have hope that it will just manifest. But if you want to make sure that it will impress things that are really important to you, Read it again or convert that into a conversation where someone is congratulating you or complimenting you on the way that you live. Effectively having them cite that positive thing. Joseph, you are so secure in your relationships. I know I am. You that's just the way that I have always been. Repeat that over and over in a loop during one sitting until you fall asleep and boom. You'll manifest it. You will change that belief permanently in your life. You will never have experiences that cause you that pain ever again. Your thoughts will automatically begin to shift. Reality will begin to shift. Bridges of incidents will begin to shift. And whether you never thought about it again after you imagined it, the world, the bridge of incidents is manifested by God. You inject the desire into God by imagining the wish fulfilled. God constructs a bridge of incidents meticulously perfect orchestrating everything with his infinite wisdom and power that exists within you in your control, you will then be swayed and you will be compelled and forced to become a person who has that new set of beliefs which ultimately what manifests the reality that you've always wanted. That's one step. The next step is defining what you want. Once you go through and exhaustively remove all these negative assumptions and beliefs, you go and you create a whole new segment of them. Ones that really don't necessarily have to do with opposing, but really think ahead. Think of the greatest grandest desires that you wanted. Think generalities. Think of what would your life be like. How would people treat you? What would your day to day be? How would you feel internally? What would your level of success be? What about health? What about romance? Break that down into all the attributes that would dictate a person's life that would have the perfect life and then write that down in a general point of view. Everything amazing happens to me. I make the greatest financial decisions. I continuously start successful businesses. These are beliefs and assumptions that I myself have instilled coming from a life where also I was financially insecure. I thought that I had to have college degree in order to make it anywhere in life. I think most people believe that and or they at least used to. But when I came to manifesting, I realized just how limiting that belief was. See, was already a master at programming, and I had finished university for computer science, math, and physics later on. But before that, I was already an expert expert, and I needed to find a job. In order to do that, I imagined that I would do so. I imagined it, and I applied to a bunch of jobs, and everything changed. Without a degree initially, I was transformed into a person who assumed I could get my dreams. I could do that. And in in order to do that, I just imagined it. That's all I did. And then the action followed. The action followed, which was I applied to a bunch of jobs, and then someone reached out to me who wasn't even related to the jobs I applied for at all which is how amazing this is and then boom I had a job without a degree. That changed my whole life. That changed everything. That made me realize everything that I thought that I knew to be true was the reason it was true. And when I changed it, that made me realize that the sky was the limit. And so for you too, what's the problem? What's the problem? Change the problem. What's your dream? Manifest the dream. Create general statements. Imagine those statements in conversational form or writing them down. Right? Everything amazing happens to me. I make great financial decisions. Right? Now this is my life. Right? Serial entrepreneurial, serial successful entrepreneur. I've coached New York time bestsellers. I've coached Olympic athletes, Hollywood movie stars. This is just what I do. This is the life that I've manifested from shifting it from someone who had nothing to who I am now. So this is the key. In the next video, we're gonna talk to you I'm going to talk to you about constructing beliefs and, your reality as a whole. I'm gonna talk to you about exactly defining based on general assumptions and specific desires that you have. Do you wanna be a multimillionaire? Do you wanna get married to a specific person? Do you wanna have the perfect body? Do you wanna move to a different place? You wanna live a dream life, whatever you want? I'm gonna take you through the process to implementing that stuff into a lifestyle so you're no longer fighting against the fabric of your current reality which has not been dictated by manifesting. And I'm telling you right now if you use manifesting the way that you lived your life before and use it as a tool, you will lose. You will not be able to manifest your dreams or if you do they will vanish before your eyes. This series is to teach you because we've been taught through society to live a certain way but this is a completely different way of living. We need to get ahead of our manifestations. We need to get ahead of our in every day to day living. So instead of reactively experiencing things and then shifting and saying, need to manifest this because this is happening. That's that's bad. We do things in just the reverse. We preemptively create our reality, and we manifest it in a way that it works with us easily and effortlessly and it is possible to do this. So in that next episode, again, we're gonna be creating our reality. I'm gonna take you through this so that you can plan it out properly and know exactly what to do. Listen, I've also got a worksheet associated with this video. It's gonna help you to get through this exactly, understand what I'm talking about here and implement to get into your life. So check that out. And other than that, I will see you next time.